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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Feb 2025 02:24 #431916

Masturbated

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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 24 Feb 2025 14:32 #431930

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redfaced wrote on 23 Feb 2025 23:54:

stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 23 Feb 2025 22:31:

stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 22 Feb 2025 23:48:
I am in a situation that someone was magdir as an emotional shutdown. Basically meaning that my emotions are off. If anyone has any experience with this or some sort of advice, please reach out. Thanks.

A Dark Soul,
Emotionally Shutdown



Just googled "what is an emotional shutdown". I liked the answer and figured I'd share it.
"It's the sensation of feeling detached from your emotions just like watching a movie of your life rather than actively being involved. It can manifest as sadness, feeling distant, lack of joy, and losing interest in activities you used to enjoy, leaving you feeling dull and isolated."

I'm in . Where do I sign up?

Send him a PM. He should be able to help...
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 27 Feb 2025 17:22 #432173

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Hey, just wanted to reach out and see how you're doing.
pm me when you get a chance and looking forward to hearing you on the vaad
"Greatness is forged in battle" - Reb Yerucham Levovitz
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 28 Feb 2025 15:21 #432235

Good Shabbos!

#NothingElsePositiveToSay

#DoingHorrible

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My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 28 Feb 2025 17:06 #432245

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No words, my friend.
Only a hug and another one and another....

May today be the start of only good days to come.

Good Shabbos.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 28 Feb 2025 17:45 #432247

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Shabbos himelizok !!!    #Nothing else to say
Lifes short.... cover ground before ground covers you

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 02 Mar 2025 00:28 #432255

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Gut Voch,
I feel unworthy to say anything, but someone I respect (see "one of the best decisions" thread under "introduce yourself") directed me to a Shiur by Reb Uri Deutch on nisyonos that I can't stop praising. I believe you have a tremendous Zechus for this and wish you only Hatzlocho! Thank you once again.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 02 Mar 2025 22:49 #432275

Since I stopped posting on a daily basis my falls happen a lot more frequent. I want to start posting again. Whether it's a win or a lose.

This may be a technique to help me white knuckle through but it's better than falling.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 03 Mar 2025 19:47 #432321

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Kol Hakovod!

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 04 Mar 2025 01:17 #432340

No masturbation today though I did see some hard core stuff.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 05 Mar 2025 01:48 #432392

Today I masturbated.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 05 Mar 2025 02:45 #432393

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Odaat,
Let me know if you want to talk on the phone, still here for you man.
"Greatness is forged in battle" - Reb Yerucham Levovitz
My Journey - https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/399197-On-the-way-Again
Things that worked for me - https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/422770-Hopeful-Memories
If you are ready to be there for others add your info to this thread - https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/428895-Thread-for-reaching-out-contacts
Feel Free to Reach out to me through email at hopefulposek613@gmail.com
Or my google voice at 3473772871 (NOTE: New Number)

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 19 Mar 2025 13:22 #433006

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Dear Brother SSSL,

Thinking of you. Hope we can hear from you soon.

Kol Tov
Today is yesterday's tomorrow.
The yetzarim a person has the most trouble dealing with are his most powerful God-given tools for developing his potential and achieving shleimus.
It doesn't matter how big the number is, only that today it is going up by one.

Please feel free to reach out. I'd appreciate connecting with you (via GYE, email, or phone - whatever floats your boat)
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 20 Mar 2025 10:49 #433096

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Hey, brother. It’s been too long. How are you? 
Please feel free to reach out anytime at chaim.oigen@gmail.com

Perhaps you'd enjoy seeing Chaim's Oigen

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 21 Mar 2025 15:54 #433187

I think I speak for all of us on the forums saying we all would love to hear how you're doing!!
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