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Re: Overcoming challenges 21 Dec 2022 05:18 #389834

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17 days clean!

BH doing well.

The way I keep upto date with gye posts is by looking through recent posts...its been super intense the last couple days. 

Was eminiscing about last year... I had major urges during chanukah and was able to persevere.


anyway, im doing well, staying busy and bezh will persevere!

Happy Chanukah!

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One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 23 Dec 2022 04:00 #389943

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19 days clean
BH doing well.

800 cumulative days clean! 
I think that is pretty big!
I don't even know what to celebrate with.....how many more doughnuts do I have to eat? Is 8 not enough? 

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Re: Overcoming challenges 23 Dec 2022 05:03 #389946

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You can celebrate on the treadmill afterwards
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Re: Overcoming challenges 23 Dec 2022 05:45 #389948

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Vehkam wrote on 23 Dec 2022 05:03:
You can celebrate on the treadmill afterwards

I think I just might  

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Re: Overcoming challenges 23 Dec 2022 15:00 #389962

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Zedj wrote on 23 Dec 2022 04:00:
19 days clean
BH doing well.

800 cumulative days clean! 
I think that is pretty big!
I don't even know what to celebrate with.....how many more doughnuts do I have to eat? Is 8 not enough? 

Yes indeed! It is VERY big! Keep it up!!
There's a joke that one of reasons for eating doughnuts on Chanukkah is that you eat it one day and it burns for 8 days... So just imagine thr results of eating many doughnuts  
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Re: Overcoming challenges 23 Dec 2022 18:26 #389966

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DavidT wrote on 23 Dec 2022 15:00:

Zedj wrote on 23 Dec 2022 04:00:
19 days clean
BH doing well.

800 cumulative days clean! 
I think that is pretty big!
I don't even know what to celebrate with.....how many more doughnuts do I have to eat? Is 8 not enough? 

Yes indeed! It is VERY big! Keep it up!!
There's a joke that one of reasons for eating doughnuts on Chanukkah is that you eat it one day and it burns for 8 days... So just imagine thr results of eating many doughnuts  

What a doughnut can do!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 03 Jan 2023 00:52 #390455

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BH 30 days clean!

Been sick since last week. Missed work today and will probably miss
again tomorrow.

Other than that 
Alot of good things going on.

Wishing you all well

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 03 Jan 2023 02:47 #390458

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Refuah sheleima 
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Overcoming challenges 03 Jan 2023 21:03 #390490

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Zedj wrote on 06 Dec 2022 03:06:

Could it be i just like porn? 

For sure. We all do. But if you cant stop watching porn, then you may want to dig a little deeper.
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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Re: Overcoming challenges 17 Jan 2023 02:12 #390932

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1 day clean

Had a fall last night.
I feel numb about it. 

My netspark subscription ended last week and I didn't have a chance to get it back up and running. (Not a great excuse)

tried to get in touch with mb smart about filtering option but didn't receive a response. 
Today sent a message to tag hopefully they will respond sometime. 

I don't really have a plan otherwise right now...

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One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 27 Jan 2023 06:05 #391299

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What’s up bro?? Any good news? Figured out a plan yet? 
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: Overcoming challenges 05 Feb 2023 02:11 #391577

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Geshmak! wrote on 27 Jan 2023 06:05:
What’s up bro?? Any good news? Figured out a plan yet? 

Hey Geshmak! And all gye friends,

BH doing well.

18 days clean!

For some reason the filter didn't allow me to respond until now.

Started a new chavrusah in the mornings (mon-fri) hopefully that continues to work out.

Gut voch.
Wishing you'all well!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Overcoming challenges 05 Feb 2023 03:56 #391580

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18 days clean!

For some reason the filter didn't allow me to respond until now.

Sho! I was getting nervous 

AH! חי!! Many many more clean days brother! Keep us posted… but don’t remove your filter even if it doesn’t let you keep us posted.
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Overcoming challenges 12 Feb 2023 02:18 #391926

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A gut vuch!! Waiting for the next update brother….
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: Overcoming challenges 19 Feb 2023 19:09 #392321

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33 days clean!

BH doing well considering some recent stresses.

Looking forward to my next positive update.

Wishing yyou'all well!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

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