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One more try 18 Jul 2022 11:23 #383496

nomorefalling OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	Hi all, I have been here before under another name, and as my new name suggests i just cant pull myself out. i am in a really bad place right now and i am going to try once more. we are about 40 days from ראש השנה, my goal is to stay clean till then. i have never done more then 30 days in the last 12 years! wish me luck

Re: One more try 18 Jul 2022 14:11 #383502

lchaim tovim Current streak: 4 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 305 Karma: 22	Hatzlocha Rabah...You can do this A few things to think about... What does stay clean mean to you? Why do you want to this? What behaviors are/have been causing you to fall? What are you going to change this time around?

Re: One more try 18 Jul 2022 18:45 #383519

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ikeepfalling wrote on 18 Jul 2022 11:23:

Hi all, I have been here before under another name, and as my new name suggests i just cant pull myself out.
i am in a really bad place right now and i am going to try once more.
we are about 40 days from ראש השנה, my goal is to stay clean till then.
i have never done more then 30 days in the last 12 years!

wish me luck

of course we all wish you luck. Either way, you should come to rosh hashana, standing tall and proud of yourself for all of your efforts

by the way, there are 70 days to rosh hashana....

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Re: One more try 18 Jul 2022 20:12 #383525

gevura shebyesod
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Vehkam wrote on 18 Jul 2022 18:45:

ikeepfalling wrote on 18 Jul 2022 11:23:

of course we all wish you luck. Either way, you should come to rosh hashana, standing tall and proud of yourself for all of your efforts

by the way, there are 70 days to rosh hashana....

90 days from today is Hoshana Rabba.

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: One more try 20 Jul 2022 12:08 #383595

nomorefalling OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	not sure why i skipped a month. anyway that didnt go as planned 1st day epic fail. (for context i have been doing it four times a day) but were not gonna give up and were starting again. thanks for all the encouragement !

Re: One more try 20 Jul 2022 12:28 #383596

shmuel Current streak: 578 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 342 Karma: 14	ikeepfalling wrote on 20 Jul 2022 12:08: not sure why i skipped a month. anyway that didnt go as planned 1st day epic fail. (for context i have been doing it four times a day) but were not gonna give up and were starting again. thanks for all the encouragement ! What are YOU going to DO differently this time? Warning: Spoiler! definition of insanity

Re: One more try 20 Jul 2022 13:45 #383598

lchaim tovim Current streak: 4 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 305 Karma: 22	So you didn't do it 3 out of four times, that's pretty awesome. Do you have anything specific that you are/are not doing to help you?

Re: One more try 21 Jul 2022 22:26 #383683

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ikeepfalling wrote on 18 Jul 2022 11:23:

I would change the name of the topic to - another try. Don't limit it to 1 more try

* NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
* I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
* Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: One more try 09 Dec 2022 09:28 #389197

nomorefalling OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	i am back again. this time i waited until i was 4 days clean before posting. so far so good, crazy urges [yesterday i was in physical pain from the urges] but managing to ride the waves. full force ahead

Re: One more try 11 Dec 2022 21:46 #389292

nomorefalling OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	one whole week! there is no denying it was hard work and i am by no means confident [may never be] but i am holding on tight. onwards and upwards

Re: One more try 11 Dec 2022 22:29 #389293

eerie Current streak: 853 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1606	Wow! I'm inspired! Keep it up! Remember, we all care for you, we are brothers here. Every drop of goodness is there forever. One week clean is one day clean, forever yours and makes Hashem proud. Remember that you are a tzaddik just for being here. If you weren't interested in being better you would find another pastime. Hashem is so proud (and I am too) Keep us posted, my friend
	Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com Last Edit: 11 Dec 2022 22:30 by eerie.

Re: One more try 12 Dec 2022 01:32 #389296

ytw Current streak: 5 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 44 Karma: 3	wow, keep it up, stay strong my friend, lets do it together. on a side note I'd strongly suggest you start the flight to freedom program and to get a co-pilot, it's a real life changer. keep us posted how it's going, it you need any further assistance pls let us know. your friend ytw
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Re: One more try 15 Dec 2022 00:07 #389431

nomorefalling OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 1	10 days!! first time in about 2 years to hit double digits. feeling a little more in control. urges not as powerful. good luck to all

Re: One more try 15 Dec 2022 00:11 #389432

eerie Current streak: 853 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1606	Keep it up, my friend! We all here are rooting for you! Keep us posted
	Feel free to say hi. My email is 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com

Re: One more try 15 Dec 2022 03:25 #389446

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ikeepfalling wrote on 15 Dec 2022 00:07:

10 days!!
first time in about 2 years to hit double digits.
feeling a little more in control. urges not as powerful.

good luck to all

That's awesome news!! Thanks for sharing and keep posting - it's so important and helpful!

Maybe change your username to give some positive energy - i.e. Ikeepwinning!, Iamawinner! or Let'sdothistogether!

Wishing you much Hatzlacha!