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Me and my struggle 21 Dec 2021 21:50 #375130

haytoon52 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 2 Karma: 1	I have been masturbating and watching pornography for forty years. It is a daily "task" that I enjoy (?) as part of my alone time in my bedroom. I have wasted SO many hours on this that I could have used constructively. I am looking for a help partner, should be getting the chizuk emails, and I want to put a filter on my LG Android phone. These are pretty good starts, right ?
	I am NOT in Western Europe, as my profile time zone indicates. I live in FLORIDA, the EASTERN Time Zone.

Re: Me and my struggle 21 Dec 2021 21:53 #375131

Rt234 OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 68 Karma: 2	Definitely!!! keep it up!!!

Re: Me and my struggle 21 Dec 2021 23:25 #375137

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haytoon52 wrote on 21 Dec 2021 21:50:

I have been masturbating and watching pornography for forty years. It is a daily "task" that I enjoy (?) as part of my alone time in my bedroom. I have wasted SO many hours on this that I could have used constructively. I am looking for a help partner, should be getting the chizuk emails, and I want to put a filter on my LG Android phone. These are pretty good starts, right ?

Wishing you good luck. Its never to late and you still a life ahead of you.
You should read the handbook.
guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/gye-handbook

* NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
* I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
* Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: Me and my struggle 23 Dec 2021 14:42 #375204

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Welcome! This time can definitely be different, especially if you work toward changing your attitude toward taivah, in addition to the incredible steps you are taking.

Please check out these great free resources:
ebook- The Battle of the Generation
Audio series- The Fight
see below in my signature for the links.

Hatzlocha!

In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: Me and my struggle 24 Dec 2021 12:20 #375237

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2791 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3956	All good ways to begin the process of getting clean. In addition, start believing that it can be done....
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

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