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Re: I will make it b"h 09 May 2017 21:22 #312714

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Re: I will make it b"h 10 May 2017 18:55 #312817

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Inspired by a recent welcome back to a beloved brother I looked up his thread and....

Mesayin wrote on 20 Oct 2015 18:53:

This is a famous poem and I happen to use it for my desktop background.

Today was the absolute worst day ever
And don't try to convince me that
There's something good in every day
Because, when you take a closer look,
The world is a pretty evil place.
Even if
Some goodness does shine through once in a while
Satisfaction and happiness don't last.
And it's not true that
It's all in the mind and heart
Because
True happiness can be attained
Only if one's surroundings are good
It's not true that good exists
I'm sure that you can agree that
The reality
Creates
My attitude
It's all beyond my control
And you'll never in a million years hear me say
Today was a very good day

Now read it from bottom to top, the other way,
And see what I really feel about my day.

You can find the story behind the poem on aish.com.

And thanks to 9494 for reminding me about the poem.

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Re: I will make it b"h 10 May 2017 19:14 #312825

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This one is good to keep in mind

Mesayin wrote on 03 Feb 2016 23:35:

Depression lust Depression lust Depression lust, it is a vicious cycle.

In my expeirences, I think I have used part of the 12 step program without even knowing it.

Meaning, the way I try to get out of depression is to know two things:

1. Happiness is in the mind, not the things that happen to me or things I obtain, the AR"I hakadosh says that בשמחה is the same letters as מחשבה and the bal shem tov says the word שמח is שם מח, so despite what today's american culture which says that what you have is makes you happy (that is a shmooz for itself) the truth is, is that it is all perception, how we look at things that determines happiness and that nothing and no one in the world can give me or take away from my happiness.

2. I may have very good excuses to be depressed; abusive and disfunctional home, struggling with parnassah, going through the tough shiduchim parsha, etc.. Those are certified justifications to be depressed, but I'm not looking to be right, I'm not looking for excuses, what I'm looking for is true happiness and that cannot be obtained if keep on making justifications, even if they are good justifications.

Just like the guy that is crossing the street when it's green and there is a car zooming down the block but the guy keeps walking and saying "I'm right, the light is green", that guy ended up dead right.

I hope I was clear.

Chazak V'emutz

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Re: I will make it b"h 10 May 2017 20:57 #312841

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Re: I will make it b"h 11 May 2017 10:49 #312871

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Re: I will make it b"h 14 May 2017 18:06 #313052

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	Do to the reemergence of yet another brother I now have 2-3 new old threads to go thru Anyone dare to guess which one!?!?!?!?!
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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 06:24 #313088

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 14 May 2017 18:06:

Do to the reemergence of yet another brother I now have 2-3 new old threads to go thru

Anyone dare to guess which one!?!?!?!?!

Shteeeeeeeeeeebbbbsssss!!!

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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 10:09 #313098

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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 17:32 #313182

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	Reading thru another one but do not wanna post'em here a s they are from the ba'al habatim's threads Enjoy there is ALOT THERE
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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 17:34 #313185

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	And Cordnoy thanks for the idea By the way bin meaning to ask what is the meaning of your name?
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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 17:39 #313190

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 15 May 2017 17:32:

Reading thru another one but do not wanna post'em here a s they are from the ba'al habatim's threads

Enjoy there is ALOT THERE

ooo! What a tease!

Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 17:52 #313199

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	Mesayin wrote on 15 May 2017 17:39: MayanHamisgaber wrote on 15 May 2017 17:32: Reading thru another one but do not wanna post'em here a s they are from the ba'al habatim's threads Enjoy there is ALOT THERE ooo! What a tease! Sorry
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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 18:42 #313206

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 15 May 2017 17:34:

And Cordnoy thanks for the idea
By the way bin meaning to ask what is the meaning of your name?

Ok, so ask.

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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 18:52 #313208

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	That was askin' What does it mean?
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Re: I will make it b"h 15 May 2017 19:00 #313210

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 15 May 2017 18:52:

That was askin'
What does it mean?

The last name of one of my relationships.

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