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Re: I will make it b"h 18 Feb 2017 21:55 #306098

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Thank you all for the posts 

B"H Shabbos was great went away to a friend of my mother-in-law and rested up wife enjoyed not having to make Shabbos for the first time in 3 months.

Mother-in-law leaving Sunday night was a good visit though....
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Re: I will make it b"h 19 Feb 2017 04:39 #306109

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Happy it all worked out
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Re: I will make it b"h 20 Feb 2017 08:25 #306219

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Re: I will make it b"h 20 Feb 2017 11:56 #306235

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I think that if I would think of it as a challenge then I would not pass it
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 18:26 #306508

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Feeling stressed 
My learning aint going so well....
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 18:33 #306510

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 22 Feb 2017 18:26:
Feeling stressed 
My learning aint going so well....

are you stressed because of your learnin' or somethin' else?

We all have stress.

Shteeble is on top of the tallest buildin' in Tennessee right now screamin' his head off sayin': Stressin' and lustin' do not need to be related! And nobody is arguin' with him.....for good reason; he is right!

I was taught to look inward as well: What can I do about the situation? How was/is it my fault? What can I do to rectify it? Do that! And whatever I cannot do (which is usually a lot), let's pray that the One Above (continues to) take(s) care of it.
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 18:40 #306511

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Wow that was fast u stalking me 

Thanks for the support I have been reading shteebles posts and they have been helping

I think that it is do only to my learning and yes I definitely can be pushing myself more 
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 18:57 #306514

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 22 Feb 2017 18:40:
Wow that was fast u stalking me 

Thanks for the support I have been reading shteebles posts and they have been helping

I think that it is do only to my learning and yes I definitely can be pushing myself more 

My pleasure.

If I would stalk anyone, it would be Nicole, not you, sorry.

And regardin' your problem, there is a simple solutionI: get the Hell off GYE (although there's lots of learnin' here lately) and get yourself to the Beis Medrash (unless you're there now).
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 18:58 #306515

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baby-sitting
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Re: I will make it b"h 22 Feb 2017 19:43 #306517

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Mostly 1st seder not going so well learning with a bocher that has issues (the Rosh knows)
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Re: I will make it b"h 23 Feb 2017 07:06 #306599

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 22 Feb 2017 19:43:
Mostly 1st seder not going so well learning with a bocher that has issues (the Rosh knows)

The Rosh knows!? Which siman?? It's amazing how much foresight the Rishonim had!!!!

What do you want out of a seder?

I started learning b'chavrusa. Then after a while I could learn Gemora by myself. So I knocked down masechta after masechta with diligent study (Eiruvin, Pesachim, Yoma, Rosh Hashona, Sukkah, Niddah, Megillah, Bava Kamma). And I realised I was a social recluse and masturbating myself into my own little world with my gemoras. Now I'm learning b'chavrusa Niddah b'iyun, going at a snail's pace, hardly getting anything l'ma'aseh, but I love learning with the guy, we shmuze and have a good time going about it. 

Not saying this is the ultimate Derech, but it's what works for me now. Connection. And this time, books weren't my friends
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Re: I will make it b"h 23 Feb 2017 11:52 #306614

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I just want to sit and learn for the 4 hour seder that the yishevah has and not have to shmuz about stupidity most of the time
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Re: I will make it b"h 23 Feb 2017 11:58 #306615

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 23 Feb 2017 11:52:
I just want to sit and learn for the 4 hour seder that the yishevah has and not have to shmuz about stupidity most of the time

Oh, okay. Then we're worlds apart :D

I spoke to a Rabbi once, he agreed the kiyum of the chavrusa is the mild chatter, connection. I asked, then isn't that bitul Torah? He said, so make time for it, like 5 minutes before the chavrusa.

I've had chavrusas we just stop contact, never even know he exists. It's scary. We just learned for hours, days together.

Maybe it would help the other guy?
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Re: I will make it b"h 23 Feb 2017 12:01 #306616

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Tried that already 
he is a bocher that needs help and I really don't mind helping just not during seder  
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Re: I will make it b"h 23 Feb 2017 13:24 #306627

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I usually accomplish many things during seder
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