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Re: Two different '90 days periods'? 03 Aug 2014 22:56 #236708

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Strong Jew,

If the Tikunim and teshuva haven't worked until now, don't count on them working in the future.

Maybe this isn't a spiritual problem at it's root...

Like you wrote in your previous post


Actually, having analysed these things, I came to conclusion that my laziness led me to temptation, then the temptation turned into addiction. Each fall (and the addiction itself, the fact that I can't overcome it) leads me to depression and low spirit, and that doesn't let me to study well, to overcome my laziness, which is the root of my problems. This is a vicious circle


The tikkunim and teshuva will only be a distraction. There will time to be a tzadik later. Right now you need to focus on developing ways for you to stay away from triggers and from lusting. Don't think about the "destroyed worlds" and the "she-demons".

Think about what you can do to live an "honest" life.

Eli
Roy in the SA White Book noted that we frequently prayed and it did not work...because the best we could muster was begging G-d to "Please take it away, so I will not have to give it up!

No amount of sobriety can cure the insanity -ChaimCharlie

The emmes hurts but fake chizzuk will hurt more -Bards

Remember, best block, no be there - Mr. Miyagi

Re: Two different '90 days periods'? 04 Aug 2014 01:14 #236725

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Re: Two different '90 days periods'? 08 Aug 2014 19:43 #237061

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Shabbat Shalom to all, achim yakarim.

I have to and want to admit that I fell not once on this week, Hashem yerachem... Yesterday was my first day clean.

Baruch Hashem, I managed to make my iPhone really safe. ALL IPHONE USERS, PLEASE USE BUILD-IN FILTER WITH PASSWORD (FOR INSTRUCTIONS GO TO VENISHMARTEM.COM), TO WHICH YOU WON'T HAVE ACCESS, INSTALL K9 WEB BROWSER AND DELETE ALL APPS WHICH MAY HAVE ACCESS TO WEB, BECAUSE THERE ARE SITES WHICH APPLE'S FILTER DO NOT IDENTIFY AS UNSAFE. I RECOMMEND ALSO TO MAKE RESTRICTION ON INSTALLING APPS, SINCE IT IS A HOLE IN THE SYSTEM, WHICH YOU WILL BE ABLE TO USE HAS VESHALOM WHEN YOU FEEL WEAK. INSTALL, DO NOT THINK ABOUT IT AND ENJOY.

If anyone has an advice for me, I'm here to listen.

Many thanks.
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