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shaila 24 Sep 2013 21:04 #219773

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I have a "shaila" of sorts to ask about my trying to get to 90 days - it pertains to whether or not a certain event qualifies as a fall... does anyone know who here with GYE I might be able to ask? I have just reviewed the rules in the "90 Day Chart" section of the website, but quite honestly, since I'm obviously nogea b'davar, I'd like to ask someone else my question... and I would be mekabel what they say. Thank you!
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Re: shaila 24 Sep 2013 21:23 #219778

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the Rashba says no (especially if its better for you; the point is to make you feel good and be mechazek you).

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Re: shaila 24 Sep 2013 21:36 #219779

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These rules are not set in stone. The basic rule is, if it (whatever "it" might be) happened by accident and you did not pursue "it" further, then it's a slip. If it was on purpose, or if it was תחילתו באונס וסופו במזיד, it's a fall.

If that answers your shaila, great. If not, feel free to post. And take a look at what Tosfos says on this sugya...
"ויעזור ויגן ויושיע לכל החוסים בו ונאמר אמן" -- ArtScroll Gabbai's Handbook

Re: shaila 25 Sep 2013 00:01 #219790

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The chiddushei harim has a whole shtickel torah based on the striah between the two tosfos that speak about this inhan. Its a long shtickel ayin shum. He also bbrings the rashba in to be myashev the shayla at the end.
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