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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Be a gever gever 27 Aug 2013 00:29 #217331

bochur613
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Hi everyone I havent posted on here for almost two months. I'm letting you know that these past 2 months have been great. I have remained clean, and am on day 57 atm. Baruch Hashem my mentor showed me what I'm capable of, he enthused me and boosted my self confidence, this filled me with simcha. This simcha has enabled me to continue to remain steadfast in my conviction to complete 90 days, and a lifetime.

One tip which I daven everyday for certain people to get, is the gift of self-confidence; knowing that Yes I've got it, I can do anything! This stops depression and lets the best come out of a person.

This past week has been very difficult for me. Baruch Hashem and Bli Ayin Hora; Hashem didn't let me fall.

I wish everyone on this system the upmost success in all their endeavors!

Be'Ahava

Bochur613

Re: Be a gever gever 27 Aug 2013 00:42 #217332

RoshYeshivasSon
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I'm happy for you, I can detect a sense of euphoria in your tone.

It's interesting that you say it is important for people to think they "can do anything," I think for many people the opposite is true; they must realize that they can't do anything; that they must put up strong gedarim in order to succeed. This is what the torah teaches us with all the yichud restrictions, some of which seem very extreme, until you've been there.

But I do acknowledge that a sense of confidence in the ability to cope is important, I just hope you can reclaim it even after a fall: Sheva Yipol Tzadik V'kom.

Re: Be a gever gever 01 Oct 2013 00:15 #220009

bochur613 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 12 Karma: 1	B'chasdei Hashem I am on day 92.
	Be'Ahava Bochur613

Re: Be a gever gever 01 Oct 2013 00:54 #220013

skeptical OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 1118 Karma: 78	Mazel tov on 92 days clean! Keep it up!
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Re: Be a gever gever 01 Oct 2013 02:13 #220019

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	KUTGW!!!
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Re: Be a gever gever 01 Oct 2013 03:47 #220028

inastruggle Current streak: 25 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder the picture is shimshon hagibor. not st. mary.... Posts: 1263 Karma: 35	Mazel tov, KUTGW!