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Re: 1st time - my story 28 Oct 2008 12:42 #610

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dear eme, thanks for the kind words.dont forget it took me 38 years and this website to finally make the break.i was ready, and Hashem sent guard at the RIGHT TIME.
and thanks chasdei avos for YOUR kind words - THAT's what doing it for me, folks! that's what gives me the inspiration to go on - it's you guys!! jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 28 Oct 2008 19:29 #615

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Jack, i'm truly inspired by you, I can't wait for you to get to 90 and then some. 
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Re: 1st time - my story 28 Oct 2008 19:37 #616

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all i needed was the support. i wont say it is easy, but once i had the support from guard and the people here, i was able finally to take off. jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 29 Oct 2008 19:35 #637

  • Mevakesh Hashem
Jack, you have no idea, but YOU are one of my biggest inspirations on this forum!!

YOU make me stronger. YOU help me maintain my momentum. YOU have no idea how good you are and how strong you are!

Chazak V'Ematz!!
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Re: 1st time - my story 29 Oct 2008 20:21 #640

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dear mevakesh i dont know why you say that - there are other people here who are going just as long as me - and you yourself had it harder than me - so i dont know why you're saying that I'M that inspiring! ok, we help each other, but that's too much credit - no? jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 31 Oct 2008 16:58 #704

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dear all, another 31 days and i hit the 90 day number! elya, tell michelle that the one sentence she said that night on the phone about 90 days made an impression on me, and i took it to heart. and thanks to all of you for your support.i never would have believed that i could accomplish this! jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 03 Nov 2008 17:14 #741

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Jack: Chazak Viamatz. Keep making us proud. You just inspired me so I said a kappittal tehillim for Hashem to give you, me and all of us the strength to keep fighting, winning and bringing Mashiach very fast.

Chasdei Avos
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Re: 1st time - my story 04 Nov 2008 22:08 #751

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There was some talk about Sheitles on this thread... Thought this might interest some of you. Click here.
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Re: 1st time - my story 07 Nov 2008 18:43 #767

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jack, you haven't posted for 5 days, are you up to 66 today? i'm counting for you and am planning a big party for when you hit 90  :D
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Re: 1st time - my story 09 Nov 2008 01:13 #768

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I learned long ago that when people compliment me I say thank you, instead of minimizing it.
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Re: 1st time - my story 10 Nov 2008 16:39 #785

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i am up to 69 today - dont worry i said i wont fail you and i'm not going to.all i need is support, which i am getting A LOT OF.cant do it alone. jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 11 Nov 2008 13:33 #789

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dear all, today is day 70.i cant believe mw is counting with me! ME! that really gives me chizuk. well, on day 90, which is 4th of kislev (dec 1) i'm going to have a BIG l'chaim to celebrate this monstrous accomplishment, with Hashem's will.if anyone would like to join me, after shachris on that day, yom sheini, i will have you all in my mind as we drink l'chaim together. will you join me? jack
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Re: 1st time - my story 11 Nov 2008 14:48 #791

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HOLY HOLY TZADIK!!  I will most definitly join you bl'n. I made myself a reminder so I don't miss it.
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Re: 1st time - my story 11 Nov 2008 14:58 #792

  • Mevakesh Hashem
Jack!

You are amazing!!! You give so many people on this forum the strength to keep fighting!!!

Chazak V'Ematz!
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Re: 1st time - my story 11 Nov 2008 16:47 #800

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I'll buy a le'chaim for everyone in my shul bl"n!
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