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Re: OK I Will give it another try 12 Jan 2009 14:06 #1942

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	when you say you're not feeling well, do you mean a cold/flu or weak and vulnerable to falling?
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 12 Jan 2009 14:15 #1944

mdmjerusalem	Oh I meant physically Flu like And what about yourself
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 12 Jan 2009 14:57 #1948

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	I'm feeling good B"H. But I was sick for almost a month straight about a month ago. It wasn't fun. Kaparas Avonos. As they say: You have "a virus" or "Aveiros"? :D
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 12 Jan 2009 16:04 #1955

mdmjerusalem	are you back on your feet?
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 12 Jan 2009 16:56 #1956

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Yes B"H. It was over about a month ago...
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 13 Jan 2009 12:31 #1971

battleworn

To me it's the same thing. When I feel sick or weak physically, that's when I'm more vulnerable.
MDM, yes that's true, and that's why some people are noheg that once a day they say a "Giluy Daas" saying: "I want to do, say and think only what's Ratzon Hashem, anything that the menuval stuffs in, is against my will and I want to have nothing to do with it." Of course we have to prove that we really mean it, by doing our utmost to keep the garbage out. BTW, I believe that this Yesod is one of the most important ones and the menuval will do anything to stop us from integrating it

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Re: OK I Will give it another try 13 Jan 2009 12:38 #1973

PostalServicio Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 184 Karma: 0	i can't believe that you guys are talking about this now...i've been pretty sick and bed-stricken for the past two days. i too noticed that i was more vulnerable since I wasn't thinking straight.
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 13 Jan 2009 16:43 #1977

mdmjerusalem	It is not only the lack of mind. To me it seems like the feeling of freedom, Hefkayris. Which you obtain by not having your regular responsibilities.
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 13 Jan 2009 17:52 #1981

Binyomin5766	I have to agree with what I'm reading here about vulnerability. I can remember times when I have been horribly sick and still pursued impurity. How could it be that I had no energy to do anything, and still found the energy to do that? Sickness and depression seem to me to be strangely related this way. I have noticed that both come along with an increased vulnerability to the Y"H.
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 13 Jan 2009 19:53 #1987

mdmjerusalem	It seems that, in our weak moments we can see what are our most difficult challenges
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 15 Jan 2009 23:50 #2035

mdmjerusalem	OK day 6 pasted very good at least in our point of view
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 16 Jan 2009 10:51 #2037

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	Are you feeling better, Tzadik?
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 18 Jan 2009 14:19 #2046

mdmjerusalem	OK i left the house today Sunday the days at home were not so hielig i didn't look at dvorim asirim but i did not keep the promise of not surfing for pleasure i would not call myself tzaddik but maybe not rosho, OR? started learning again and hope to keep the 2 week promise
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Re: OK I Will give it another try 18 Jan 2009 15:26 #2047

the.guard
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If you held yourself back from devarim assurim even when in a low point, feeling sick, home alone and not doing your normal responsibilities, that is impressive indeed. You have it in you, MDM. Keep strong and read the daily Chizuk e-mails well. We are here for you, and Hashem is here for you. Make use of that :-) Speak to him. Plead with him. Ask him to help you remove lust from your life and replace it with Ahavas Hashem.

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Re: OK I Will give it another try 19 Jan 2009 14:52 #2055

mdmjerusalem	ok guard please hang me on the chart day 10 today but i still did not keep my promise surfing daily, and without a filter i can take my weakness hashem please give me 2 sense
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