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Re: Home of Gibbor120 01 Nov 2011 19:01 #123752

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Thanks 7UP for responding.  Our relationship has definitely grown by leaps and bounds, but sometimes the road gets a bit bumpy.
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 01 Nov 2011 20:21 #123775

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Bumps in the road are a normal part of any marriage; addict or not. The question is what do you do when the road gets steep?
I once heard a beautiful mashal:

When a couple get married, they are given a long rope to hold. Each stands at opposite ends of the rope. Every time they argue, its as if they cut the rope which joins them. They are now faced with two choices; either to continue holding a torn rope as if nothing happened, and to pretend its not dragging along behind them.
Or they can chose to fix it.
To rejoin the rope, they will need to tie a knot at the break.  What happens when one ties a knot  in something? The distance between the two ends come closer!
If you can learn how to disagree, then each difference of opinion will in essence, BRING YOU CLOSER THAN EVER BEFORE!


Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM"
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 01 Nov 2011 20:23 #123776

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Beautiful mashal indeed!
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 01 Nov 2011 20:25 #123778

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beautiful!
thanks for sharing that
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 02 Nov 2011 13:42 #123846

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The problem with "self control" is 2 things.

Self

and

control

Both are toxic for me.
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 02 Nov 2011 14:38 #123853

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well-said!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 13:48 #124790

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800th POST!
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 14:02 #124795

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mazel tov
kein yirbu
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 15:20 #124806

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Gibbor, you are a force for the good here on GYE and it's great having you aboard!
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 16:40 #124830

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 08 Nov 2011 15:20:

Gibbor, you are a force for the good here on GYE and it's great having you aboard!


& I follow closely behind my friend ZemirosShabbos in these sentiments!!!!   
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 16:41 #124831

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Thanks! You guys are the best!
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 16:42 #124832

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Hey, how did my posts just go down to 796. Is a moderator taking liberties to delete my posts  >.
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 17:04 #124839

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I was just gonna say that it says 799 by your posts there.... :D
You are still a force of good, though!
Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 17:06 #124841

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Thanks, it's back up to 800.  I need to find that prankster  >.
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Re: Home of Gibbor120 08 Nov 2011 17:33 #124860

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maybe some of the posts fell into the cholint
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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