trying the best wrote on 22 Aug 2024 22:29:

This may get me in trouble but I've seen this question a few times. L'maaseh there's a website called Reddit that I generally try to stay far away from.

However, there is a subreddit there titled something like "Ask Women" or something so...create an anonymous account, don't identify as a frum yid and ask the question! I actually think you'll gain a lot from it.

oops I didn't realize the comment was from a year ago. Regardless the suggestion still applies for who anyone is kept up at night by this question.

kavey wrote on 03 Jul 2025 20:07:

Excuse me, but you are writing on a frum website for people who are struggling with lust and you are trying to send them out to get into trouble. You obviously didn't have bad intentions but you should have known how bad it would be to do as you suggest.