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telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 11 Nov 2014 17:27 #243118

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One thing that worked for me for quite a while now is just thinking to urself that if u do lust u wont be מצליח in certain things ur trying to succeed for example if u have a certain job that takes extra ס"ד or ur looking for a shidduch and everything in life that needs help from above. And in the opposite way think of how to prevent losing things u already have as it is known that every time u do lust u create kids of the soton and they request things that had to be sent to u as if they are a blockage for things that gets sent from above to u. A big segula to get rid of those sotons kids is saying krias shema al hamitta with kavono.

Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 11 Nov 2014 18:50 #243123

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Welcome,

thanks for the tips.

Don't be a stranger.
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Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 11 Nov 2014 21:31 #243139

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Hello and Welcome

Just to not disappoint you, we don't dictate Hashem how to run his world, some people have worked very hard on not lusting, and still have hardships in their life for whatever reason "Hashem" has decided so, we work on our YH for we have to that's what he wants from us we don't expect anything in return.

So even if God forbid things don't go the way we want or think is good for us, we have no right to fall and give in to the YH, we have to continue and beg for clarity.
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

Thank You Hashem for every moment of Sobriety!

Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 11 Nov 2014 23:18 #243147

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מתוך שלא לשמה בא לשמה. Im just trying to help people with ideas that helped me and im sure the רבונו של עולם will appreciate whatever way it is done even if its not done with all the right כוונות to stop lusting.

Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 12 Nov 2014 00:55 #243156

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You might wanna learn your way around here first.
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Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 12 Nov 2014 00:59 #243157

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By what way?

Re: telling urself ur gonna fail if u do lust 12 Nov 2014 01:09 #243160

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See what people's problems are.
Post some of your own.
See what others say and think.
Make yourself comfortable.

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