gggg

there is no more chance for me to get caught than a car should run me over, thats all im saying.
life is dangerous, but we gotta live it.... ill not cross the street cause of a car? ill not porn cause ill get caught? ill not fly by a plain cause its gonna crash?
YES i will do all that, and ill do all in my power not to die and not to get caught

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 18:12:


I'm not saying that you should stop because of this, but there is a fundamental difference between the two:
If you cross the street and don't get hit so your alive and all is well, and if you do get hit you're dead but only from this world. 
When you watch porn and don't get caught, your dead pretty much in this world and the next.  And if you do get caught, your pretty much dead in this world (but maybe it will wake you up enough to save you in the next world).

dean in this world by porn, dead in this world without it מאי חזית

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 18:42:


Dead in this world without it, is only an illusion.  Although you are not alone in thinking that.  I think most of us can relate to the feeling that if I don't have the object of my lust I will die.  Been there done that.

But even if it wasn't simply an illusion and was really true, for some of us dead in the next world can be a נפקא מינה. 

But don't focus on that too much because we're not  מאמינם enough to worry about the next world.  If you're happy with the way your life is going in the here and now then keep at it.  If you're not ; then know there is a way out.  It's that simple and magical.  But you have to make that decision.

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 17:47:


Do you enjoy not living in reality?

--Eye.

Eye.nonymous wrote on 25 May 2011 19:06:


i dont know what u mean

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 19:13:

i dont know what u mean
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So think about it a while.

Eye.nonymous wrote on 25 May 2011 19:06:


What's not reality.  I could think of a lot of magic words, that could push laag to sacrifice his only joy in this world:

Sweetie, unless you have a really good explanation I want a divorce.

or

Tatty, I thought we are not allowed to look at those things.

or

Why shouldn't I, Tatty does?

or

You are hereby sentenced to . . .

Although, I guess some people only stop once the magic words "We hereby pronounce ploni ben ploni dead" are uttered. 

Don't mind me Laag, I'm just being melodramatic, it can never happen to you.

eye, u probabl watch a lot of drama films, thats why u asked such dramatic question...

but ill myke u happy and say: life dry as it is isnt much funn... by watching films your mind goes free.... is that what u wanted to hear?

and u URAJ how do u say in america:
WHATEVER...
ye ye ye.... aha aha aha....

i told u, everething in life is risky(מסוכן) all we can do is take precuttions

Eye give it up. He can think about it all day he won't get your question.  In his mind there is nothing unrealistic about a magic cure. So the whole question goes right over his head.

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 17:47:

Really?  What make/specification is your computer, and what kind of internet?




What kind of music and movies?  I enjoy most music (except pop) and generally alternative, quirky and "arthouse" movies.




But all the people who got caught on a red light street are cross...

There are so many people on this site who sincerely want to change, why would all you people waste your time on somebody who does not?

TheJester wrote on 25 May 2011 19:39:

Really?  What make/specification is your computer, and what kind of internet?
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call of duty, car theft etc  8)

because i dont want in my house should be official a regular internet connections for a few reasons
a) its asur
b) when i do teshuva is eassyer..
3) not good for the kids
d) having a regular inernet connection , shapes my house on a way i dont want it, so i have a usb that i can hide, only my wife knows i have it, and the kids think i dont have internet.
But this usb has a limit for 15 gb with high speed a month...



i like every kind of music almost if its good done, i play a instrument my self (dont wanna say what im scared of revealing too much about me) but lets say that i enjoy the most rock

me3: i want to change

Me3 wrote on 25 May 2011 19:50:


Now all those people need to do is to read through this one thread and they can see the six million reasons why they should, how they could, all in one convenient place.

Although seriously speaking, you are probably right.  But at the same time it's not for naught because the lesson for all us is that we can have the answers right in front of our nose, and our stupidity and stubborness can be obvious to everyone around us, but we"ll miss it anyway.  Pretty scary actually.

laagvokeles wrote on 25 May 2011 19:56:


lol