you see durdaya, u already helped me, you made clear the point, that life isnt BETTER without porn, but yes LIFE it self starts without porn.

and this חילוק is very nice to hear, and i thank you for that

I'm sure it did you a lot of good too. Please tell us how you conducted your life differently today over yesterday.

:-[
good words will always by the end have a influence, my brain acumulates a lot of anti porn information, and one day BOOOM

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 13:55:


That's what I was worried you would say.  I"ll just say what I intended to say originally:  כשם שמצוה לומר דבר הנשמע כך מצוה לא לומר דבר שלא נשמע

חס ושלום
in my case its nishma big time

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 16:25:


The word "nishma" comes from the same shoresh as "shema," as in "shema yisroel" it means more than just hearing, but taking to heart.

yes

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 11:00:


You're very welcome.

As a fellow Yid, I hope that you get a life in the very near future...

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 13:55:


As Yidden, we don't believe in big booms the same way we don't believe in big bangs. Nothing happens if someone doesn't actually do something. I can talk about learning gantz shas and dalet chelkei shulchan oruch -but if I don't open up a sefer, that's not going to happen by way of a "BOOOM" from himmel. I can hear someone talk about a Corvette all night, but that won't magically get me a car.

Eisav's head was buried in the Me'aras HaMachpeila -it was full of all the right things, but unfortunately his actions were what decided his fate, so his body was not worthy of being buried there.

I think you get what I mean.

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 16:25:


I would have written:

laagvokeles wrote on 16 May 2011 16:25:


Bei inz fiert men zich na'seh koidem lenishma...

As one gye (Jooboy) has on his signature line: "I can't if G-d won't, and G-d won't if I don't."

(This is a paraphrase of an idea from Mesilas Yesharim at the end of "Beiur Middas HaZehirus" He's Kosher enough for you, no? Guess What! He was a 12 stepper! Yes! I'm not kidding you! He really was! His sponsor's name was Rebbe Pinchas ben Yair! Don't believe me? Well, here are his twelve steps...

1. Torah
2. Zehirus
3. Zerizus
4. Nekiyus
5. Perishus
6. Tahara
7. Chassidus
8. Anavah
9. Yiras Cheit
10.Kedusha
11. Ruach Hakodesh
12. Techiyas HaMeisim



There... How about that!!!)

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i many many times in my life got the big BOOOOM, but since i got in here (gye) i dont get it for a long long time, i dont know why.
(i do have a shtikel sevara, but its not definitive so ill not say it.)

How's the BOOOM laag?

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I have a shtikel sevara too laag. Its that prior to GYE you had what you thought were BOOMS. Coming here you've realized that you've been fooling yourself all along.

I'll tell you were you can shtikel your s'vorah....

Hey I thought you weren't reading this thread. Don't tell me you get BOOMS too?

ben durdayah wrote on 17 May 2011 22:44:


are u making funn of me? > where is the compassion? ;D

ur-a-jew wrote on 17 May 2011 23:00:


i would ratter say that after coming in here and seen how גדולים וטובים ממני have this problem, and how the? cry out loud how hard it is to get rid of this, i came to realise that my teshuva was never enough, i have to do a much stronger teshuva ... and i dont have koach...

any way daven for me please

Why don't you consider putting teshuva on hold for now and focus on learning how to stop.