Hello, Im a 26 yr old bachur in shidduchim for about 4 yrs, I recently have become a lot more shark with minyan, learning and shmiras habris...

My struggles are P&M and also had chats here and there in the past, but bh I never went beyond the virtual world and never had any real life experiences, in the past I would get a bit put off by stuff people would tell me they did and would think that maybe it isn't that bad especially in this generation, and just trying to justify going further than the virtual online space, bh it Neve came to that!! and now im in a place I have never been before! 

​In any event, Im here cause Im tired of this never ending loop and wanna put this all behind so I can focus on finding a wife and grow together!

​Looking forward to share and get any advice, from this holy platform:)

Welcome! Try strengthening yourself with these great free resources:

1) The Battle of the Generation: a sensational free ebook that seriously gets you excited to fight and win this fight. It's a real game-changer.

2) The Fight: an incredible audio series from Rabbi Shafier.

Links are below in my signature. Wishing you much success!

Welcome! You came to the right place. I can def relate to the "never ending loop" feeling. That's why I'm here too...

I've found it very helpful to post on the forum and chat with people who are going through the same struggles. Hatzlacha in your journey!

Hay welcome Puremind,
here a hug, a tight one!

It sounds like you have a pure mind,

You came here you're ready to fight,
just keep posting, make friends, 
looking forward to see you grow buddy,

You should know that you can break free! It is possible 
Stay strong.