Welcome to the most wonderful family in the world! I want to give you a huge hug!!! You are amazing in all that you have grown!
My friend, there is much to learn here, so please stick around, read, share, ask, and most important, listen

One piece of advice for now
Many of the buys here find that it helps before they enter a compromised space that will challenge them, to reach out and share that with a trusted friend. Of course, to do that you'll have to make some friends here first, which is in itself the most powerful tool I know about in fighting this scourge.
Feel free to reach out to my email, in the signature below
Keep trucking!