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Re: scared from the urge to come 10 Oct 2023 03:42 #402034

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Maybe phone "stuff" appears to be more personal.
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Re: scared from the urge to come 11 Oct 2023 01:28 #402074

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	Hashem Help Me wrote on 10 Oct 2023 03:42: Maybe phone "stuff" appears to be more personal. sorry. pls explain. how would a recording of people talking dirty to each other, feel more personal then watching it happening live on a screen?

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 04:01 #402134

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	I thought you meant that you were chatting with them on the phone.
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Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 18:44 #402155

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	I had a huge fall yesterday! it feels so painful!!

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 18:48 #402157

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	Hashem Help Me wrote on 12 Oct 2023 04:01: I thought you meant that you were chatting with them on the phone. that's what I first meant. and that is why I wrote another post to explain myself better that even when its just a recording I feel it stronger then video. which sounds weird.

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 19:12 #402158

ih987654321 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 11 Karma: 0	although I am certainly no expert in the matter perhaps when you only have audio more is left up to your imagination as opposed to video which is you get what u see

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 19:55 #402164

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	makes a lot of sense.

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 20:01 #402165

bright Current streak: 74 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 617 Karma: 23	Can I ask who cares?
	Nothing good grows in the dark.

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 21:49 #402179

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	bright wrote on 12 Oct 2023 20:01: Can I ask who cares? yes u can

Re: scared from the urge to come 12 Oct 2023 23:45 #402183

bright Current streak: 74 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 617 Karma: 23	So i am asking what dif why do you care If its normal or not?
	Nothing good grows in the dark.

Re: scared from the urge to come 13 Oct 2023 01:48 #402188

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	right now I 2 don't care about this. all I want is to get back to that place of strength that I was before my fall. it is ssoooo hard, it feels like I need to start again from the beginning.

Re: scared from the urge to come 13 Oct 2023 03:10 #402197

ainshumyeiush Current streak: 2 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 311 Karma: 26	I know the feeling. You're like damn it whyd i fall, then i wouldn't have to deal with this now...
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Re: scared from the urge to come 13 Oct 2023 05:15 #402209

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crispy wrote on 13 Oct 2023 01:48:

right now I 2 don't care about this. all I want is to get back to that place of strength that I was before my fall.
it is ssoooo hard, it feels like I need to start again from the beginning.

The success of you staying clean is dependent on how you deal with the sometimes inevitable slip/fall. For example, whenever I space out for part of davening my mind tells me "what you missed so much already, forget about it". But I tell myself, "now I have the opportunity to work on getting over failures. This is a test that may be more important than concentrating on davening in the first place". The same applies here.

Nothing good grows in the dark.

Last Edit: 13 Oct 2023 05:16 by bright.

Re: scared from the urge to come 13 Oct 2023 11:00 #402213

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The Sforno says - When Hashem asked Kayin "Lama naflu panecha?", His message was - If there is a way to fix the problem, just do that - No need to be down in the dumps. Your korban was not accepted? Bring another one that is more acceptable and move on. A mistake is just that - a mistake. The world does not come to an end because of a mistake - especially when there is an obvious way to simply fix the issue.

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Re: scared from the urge to come 13 Oct 2023 19:32 #402243

crispy OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 209 Karma: 10	wow! thanx for all your chizuk! I feel terrible. this night was the same story. i feel like i am back in the swamp and i need to start this all again. hashem! pleeees help me get over this and feel strong again1