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Hi!! This is my truth 12 May 2022 23:09 #380676

danger324 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 0	Something is hidden for guests. Please log in or register to see it. , tengo un problema de deseo sexual fuerte, estaba jugando un videojuego online y comence a emocionarme porque habia una mujer detras del personaje y era una niña de 8 años. no me evites y dame un consejo Warning: Spoiler! *Ayuda mee*
	Last Edit: 13 May 2022 03:45 by danger324. Reason: Error

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 13 May 2022 01:06 #380679

eyes Current streak: 137 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 340 Karma: 30	If you are a female there is a site for you Please email the administrators for help this is the mens site Sorry

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 13 May 2022 03:45 #380686

danger324 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 0	Sorry I'm bad at English, I tried to say that there was an 8-year-old woman in the game

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 14 May 2022 10:17 #380712

eyes Current streak: 137 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 340 Karma: 30	Please tell us more about yourself

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 14 May 2022 23:48 #380713

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I will tell more about my problem In my 18 years my duel with the Yetzer will be difficult. I try to think good things, but my mind has bad thoughts of lust when I see men, women, girls, boys I was addicted in porn and masturbation, I am clean without masturbation or porn but feeling dirty is part of me, because of those evil thoughts. I look bad because of the content and it seems that I am in a high degree of sexual depravity help me I want to be different, be a being of light and help others How do I start to have better thoughts?

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 15 May 2022 02:06 #380714

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Thoughts are not evil. It’s up to you how to react to them. Did you grow up in a Torah environment?

vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me. Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.

some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me. This is ok. I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves. If you do realize that you know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 15 May 2022 02:35 #380715

danger324 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 0	I grew up in a non-Torah environment.
	Last Edit: 15 May 2022 05:16 by danger324.

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 15 May 2022 03:48 #380717

vehkam
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Sorry, I am having a hard time with the language. I suggest you speak to your rabbi.

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 15 May 2022 05:15 #380720

danger324 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 0	Speak english?

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 15 May 2022 05:18 #380721

danger324 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 0	I already corrected the message

Re: Hi!! This is my truth 27 May 2022 19:45 #381286

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Ola!
Thoughts, fantasies and images were very much a part of me for many years. What worked for me was 2 things:
1. I worked on guarding my eyes. For me, that just meant females. If you are attracted to males, you probably want to work on not looking too much at them also.
2. For the thoughts, every time they came, I spoke to Hashem (Dios) about it. I asked Him to take the thoughts and images from me. Every time. Over and over. I sincerely wanted to give them up.

There's much more, but this is a good start.

Wishing you much success,
Alex