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struggling 15 Dec 2021 15:25 #374975

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This is my first time using gye as well as posting anything. I just need chizuk to begin. I'm in my mid 20s and married. bh I don't struggle the way i used to partly because I'm married now and also because I have my own devices now so I can be on top of the filtering and make sure that its good. I just at times find it still challenging. Also I first started probably over 10 years ago with no filter at all an I'm scared to fall back into that. please I just need some chizuk now especially because the world is so unforgiving about this at face value. Thank you

ps I'm just starting and don't know yet how often I will be able to check my inbox so don't be turned off if I don't respond right away

Re: struggling 15 Dec 2021 23:56 #374989

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Welcome, its suggested to first read the handbook.
Hatzluche in your journey.
guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/gye-handbook
 *  NO, It's not all or nothing, just every bit counts!
 *  I failed yesterday, and I might fail tomorrow. But just for today I'm going to give it a try.
 *  Being curios made me lust and get into trouble.
אָמַר רבי יוחנן: אֵבֶר קָטָן יֵשׁ לוֹ לָאָדָם, מַרְעִיבוֹ = שָׂבֵעַ, מַשְׂבִּיעוֹ = רָעֵב

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Re: struggling 16 Dec 2021 14:53 #375005

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wellcome home, 
make yourself comfortable, you may find gye a little dizzying in the beggining, dont be afraid to ask
keep strong! hashem loves you!
*** READ THIS***
You may see a low number of clean days, but don't forget to add 700 days to it, YES! you're reading it well, Seven Hundred plus  amount of days

Re: struggling 16 Dec 2021 14:58 #375006

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Welcome! Please check out these great free resources: 
ebook- The Battle of the Generation 
Audio series- The Fight
see below in my signature for the links.

​Hatzlocha!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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