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I keep falling 30 Nov 2020 00:36 #357927

  • lee1999
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Hi all I need to share that however many devices I run away from I always find another and do bad two days then wake up to filter it!!!!!
i keep trying and always falling and the problem lies within the fact that always when there is a desire im so desperate and I always give in what do you guys say??
I want everyone's answers don't say he has loads already etc

Re: I keep falling 30 Nov 2020 01:15 #357928

  • Grant400
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Take a look in my thread called "Just regular movies ". I also thought filters was the begin all end all. I realized my mistake.

Re: I keep falling 30 Nov 2020 01:49 #357929

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Filters are a great and necessary tool. But they don't solve the problem entirely, even just because of the reason you mentioned, that there's always another device. Also, make sure not to give yourself the subtle message that you will for sure give in if you encounter an unfiltered device, because it makes it more likely that you will.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/
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