Grant400 wrote on 16 Aug 2020 13:50:
They do!! Non stop. Asifas, conferences, school rules, you name it, but...parents just don't get it. It's too foreign for most. Rabanim are definitely not to blame. They literally scream it from the rooftops and are called "closeminded". They make it clear to bochurim that the door is open for them to discuss these topics and are called perverts. What more do you want them to do?
I just want to point out that while everything you said is right and true, most rebbeim make it clear in the proper fashion, others need to be taught. I had a rebbe who asked us very explicit questions that should never be asked by any age and he screwed up quite a handful of bochurim due to this. Most understand though...no argument there.