hashemyeracheim613 wrote on 21 Feb 2022 02:28:
As someone who started dating and then took a break for a year and a half due to anxiety, I can tell you firsthand that it's not easy. People would redt Shidduchim, and I would basically brush them off. It was really weird because I had worked with several Shadchanim, and then I basically ignored them. In the end, it didn't make a difference. The second I re-entered I just called them up and said "Hey I know we kind of fell out of touch, I'm still in Shidduchim, do you by any chance have any ideas?' People are usually blissfully unaware of other's internal issues. This seems to be true in your case as well, as people are inquiring after you. From the few times I've communicated with you, you seem to be a very sociable and likable person. As soon as you jump in, people will happily send you ideas. I know is really stinks to wait, but don't worry about your chances. I'm positive that people are waiting to set you up. As always, I apologize if I made any incorrect assumptions. But from the little bit I know, I believe the above-stated to be true.
Thanks so so much for this, it really helps immensely to hear from someone who’s a few steps ahead of where I am now.
I gained a lot from our shmuzin and hopefully could speak more often.
Im glad to see you’re doing well, I keep track of your thread.
And it means a lot to have you keeping track of mine.