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Re: Just to introduce myself and ask some advice 05 May 2019 22:29 #340942

Good luck! Coming to a new zman is a great opportunity, and naturally an optimistic and exciting time!
Joined as a single bochur, Bh broke free (but still on watch) by using the tools on this website, therapy but mainly through getting married. 

הנותן עיניו במה שאינו שלו, מה שמבקש לא נותנים לו, ומה שבידו נוטלים ממנה

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Re: Just to introduce myself and ask some advice 06 May 2019 12:28 #340949

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Take things days by day, hour by hour.

If you are compelled to watch these images then perhaps the compulsion comes from something lacking in your life...perhaps you need a healthy outlet to relax?
Replace the images with positive things.

Try walking.
Exercising.
Talking to a relative.
Listening to Hasidic music (considering whatever is appropriate music for the Omer period).
Or any time you get the urge to look at the images, instead look at something better....photos of Israel...or of nature parks?
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