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Re: my problems 09 May 2017 20:17 #312690

GrowStrong Current streak: 2153 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder OMAAT Posts: 888 Karma: 89	Did you consider surrendering it instead of fighting it.

Re: my problems 09 May 2017 20:27 #312693

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mikestruggling wrote on 09 May 2017 20:14:

i'm lusting right now like crazy noones around and i have at least three different ways to feed my addiction

for starters i left a message by my mentor later he'll check up on me so i'd better not fall (he reads my thread too)
additionally i'm posting here that 1. takes time (time not spent acting out) 2. it'll help me feel good when i pull through

that's how i plan on overcoming this nisayon hatzlacha

I'd pray pray and pray again.... God could and would if He is sought!!!!

Keep strong brother

You're better than yesterday but not as good as you're gonna be tomorrow. - Harvey

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Re: my problems 09 May 2017 20:31 #312695

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mikestruggling wrote on 09 May 2017 20:14:

1. Make sure you type e x t r a s l o w l y .
2. Meh

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My threads:
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/236327-Bigmoish-tries-to-be-good
www.guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/236329-Bigmoishs-path-to-tahara

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"Desiring is not a sin at all, but just a sign that you are not dead yet" - Dov
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Re: my problems 09 May 2017 20:33 #312696

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	You can call Shlomo email a whole slew of the chevrah keep posting read the last three pages of my thread We are here for you
	very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:04 #312708

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 135	MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 20:33: You can call Shlomo email a whole slew of the chevrah keep posting read the last three pages of my thread We are here for you You definitely can call me. It's so funny because I don't remember anyone actually calling me unless we privately emailed or texted each other beforehand. GrowStrong might be the only one actually.
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Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:07 #312709

Ihavestrength OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 708 Karma: 35	GrowStrong wrote on 09 May 2017 20:17: Did you consider surrendering it instead of fighting it. How would one go about surrendering it?
	If you are really bored, you can check out my original thread here: guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/305558-Journey-of-one-day-at-a-time "Think good and it will be good!"

Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:12 #312711

mayanhamisgaber Current streak: 44 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1198 Karma: 71	HOW IS IT GOING MIKE WE ARE WAITING FOR AN UPDATE I MAY NOT SLEEP TONIGHT MAN LET US KNOW PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE
	very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:33 #312721

trouble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 874 Karma: 224	MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 21:12: I MAY NOT SLEEP TONIGHT MAN because you already slept during ....
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Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:43 #312726

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Shlomo24 wrote on 09 May 2017 21:04:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 20:33:

You can call Shlomo
email a whole slew of the chevrah
keep posting
read the last three pages of my thread

We are here for you

You definitely can call me. It's so funny because I don't remember anyone actually calling me unless we privately emailed or texted each other beforehand. GrowStrong might be the only one actually.

Yes need to do that more!

Re: my problems 09 May 2017 21:52 #312729

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Ihavenostrength wrote on 09 May 2017 21:07:

GrowStrong wrote on 09 May 2017 20:17:

Did you consider surrendering it instead of fighting it.

How would one go about surrendering it?

The million dollar question!
Here is my 2c.
You read the Big Book... then read is slower.
After a third reading you can listen to Joe and Charlie.

Here is a dollars worth I got from a close friend but its harder to comprehend without having a feeling of the definition.
You give the the title belt to Lust. Then return the crown to God.
Then you stand outside the Ring and see if you can help the next hopeless contender. (skipped 8 steps but thats the drift)

Re: my problems 10 May 2017 03:33 #312763

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deep breath everyone! i passed! (ok no round of applause)
my nisayon wasn't too long eventually my wife came into the room i fell asleep easy my meds kick in real quick but a personal thank you to each and everyone of you for replying to my stressful moment to me its not about reading it during my nisayon rather knowing that later on i'll come back to my thread and i better have something good to say
thankyou the Ribono Shel Olam should help you on all your nisyonos

Formerly mikestruggling I just bought a truck. l hang out in the trailer and G-d drives.

Warning: Spoiler!

Re: my problems 10 May 2017 03:39 #312764

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	Now compare the elation of passing to the deep-seated depression that always eventually accompanies a fall. The difference is immeasurable.

Re: my problems 10 May 2017 11:29 #312776

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 2888 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 4042	Mike, super! By the way reading the book, forums, chizuk emails etc., or knowing that you will need to post the outcome,helps by giving us the ability when a nisayon comes to stop for a second and think. That second makes a world of a difference. You are training yourself well with Hashem's help. Continued hatzlocha.
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Re: my problems 10 May 2017 12:49 #312781

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mikestruggling wrote on 10 May 2017 03:33:

Of course round of applause

you passed, why ever not?

Keep it up brother

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Re: my problems 11 May 2017 11:00 #312873

mikestrucking OFFLINE Platinum Boarder I am a good person who is unfortunately sick Posts: 322 Karma: 23	i by mistake deleted the last post it said to try learning out loud with a tune unfortunately i'm back with not good news i fell bh i didn't fail because that's impossible as long as i am fighting it still doesn't feel gr8 and i want to know what i will do if this comes again is there anyone in israel who i can call you cam email me mikefineroth@gmail.com thanx for reading
	Formerly mikestruggling I just bought a truck. l hang out in the trailer and G-d drives. Warning: Spoiler! Unfortunately most of the time I do back seat driving