wanttogetbetter550 wrote on 18 Mar 2016 15:22:
why would i want to tell her?
because i feel with her support i can get through this just afraid of her reaction
Just to clarify what everyone is saying- they don't know you and your personal story, so how can they advise you properly?
Also, telling one's wife can be very helpful at times, but right now you are talking about telling her because YOU need to- but is it good for her? That's part of the equation, and again a therapist or rabbi who knows oh would help.
But also what Cordnoy said- what are you doing to help this issue? You don't need your wife to start working on it. Read the GYE handbook or the threads in the signatures of Cordnoy or Markz, and post more about your story so that you can open up and then people CAN offer some input based on their experiences and what worked for them. Hatzlacha!
