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RRRRRRR! 08 Jul 2015 21:21 #259061

ZDuvid OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 102 Karma: 6	I'm on my 90 day jurney. I'm holding at day 6 and I feel overly anxious and I get nervous very fast. My wife asked me if I had a hard day in work yesterday but there wasn't anything special going on. Can it be detox from my addiction??....

Re: RRRRRRR! 08 Jul 2015 21:23 #259062

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Sure. Many people experience withdrawal, or are just more edgy without their "pacifier". Recovery is about learning to live without the "pacifier" and still staying sane.
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Re: RRRRRRR! 08 Jul 2015 21:28 #259063

ZDuvid OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 102 Karma: 6	So now I gotta work in my anxiousness too???? Shoots! Why did I start with this stupid addiction

Re: RRRRRRR! 08 Jul 2015 21:34 #259068

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Work on the anxiety etc, and you won't have to worry that much about the addiction. The addiction is just to numb the pain of anxiety etc.
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Re: RRRRRRR! 08 Jul 2015 23:18 #259081

admor Current streak: 8 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 3 Karma: 0	This would now become your way to become ever greater. You have had the temptation and yet did not full into it. The result: Zedonos nass'e Zecuyos!

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 01:11 #259092

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	Yeah, it's very hard - but it gets better! I had some real intense Shalom Bayis issues when I started. A short while ago I told Mrs. Polar Bear about my streak (She doesn't really understand what a big problem it is), and now she is complimenting me that everything good that happens in the house is in the Zchus of my streak and that it's such a bracha! Keep it up!

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 01:14 #259094

yiraishamaim OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1031 Karma: 101	Sounds like Mrs. polar bear is a real azer kenegdo and an aishes chayil You are really zoche! Appreciate the gift

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 01:19 #259096

ZDuvid
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Posts: 102
Karma: 6

polar bear wrote:

Yeah, it's very hard - but it gets better!

I had some real intense Shalom Bayis issues when I started. A short while ago I told Mrs. Polar Bear about my streak (She doesn't really understand what a big problem it is), and now she is complimenting me that everything good that happens in the house is in the Zchus of my streak and that it's such a bracha!

Keep it up!

Wow!
I betchya 99.99.99% of guys here would pay top dollar for a wife with that attitude!!
Your one lucky man!
Keep it up!
(Wow you got some days there in your streak!)

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 01:41 #259103

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	Point in case: I went though **** first.

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 01:41 #259104

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	It gets better.

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 18:33 #259145

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	polar bear wrote: and now she is complimenting me that everything good that happens in the house is in the Zchus of my streak and that it's such a bracha! So... if something bad happens, she'll assume you had a fall
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Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 19:08 #259150

lamplighter Current streak: 13 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 40 Karma: 6	even though im not married some of my close friends realize that sometimes im different then ususal... i try to work on the fact that for today i was clean and just because of that it should be the happiest day of my life good luck to you!!
	all the best! ONE day at a time!! _ _ _ why is my name lamplighter? the answer is in the link below! youtu.be/iasAOfWA_4s

Re: RRRRRRR! 09 Jul 2015 21:48 #259173

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	Gibbor: Yes. If something bad happens she'll probably accuse me of having a fall. Correction: If I fall and something bad happens, she'll accuse me of having a fall.

Re: RRRRRRR! 04 Jan 2016 04:02 #273256

polar bear OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 121 Karma: 7	Hey ZDovid, I happened to tap into this topic today and noticed that you were worried at the time about how you would get through to 90. Today the number 90 is next to your name. Congrats! You made it! How's the tension doing?