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Re: advice 19 Feb 2015 14:41 #249008

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yiraishamaim wrote:
No end of the rainbow?
this defeatest attitude has no place in recovery.

There are many here who are a very long ways away from the so-called end of the rainbow you speak of, if it exists at all. I fear your insistence in this matter will discourage them, at best, and perhaps even depress them.


yiraishamaim wrote:
When we finally finish our journey we are rewarded for our efforts for eternity. We call it menucha -my rebbe once said- because then the soul is truly at rest- there is no more adversity with the yetzer harah- no more fighting -just basking in the glow of our achievement.

What you are describing here sounds very much to me like the grave. That is the only menucha (aside from shabbos) that I know of that we generally assoaciate with yahadus, and specifically regarding the battle with the yetzer hara.
The Gemara clearly says "Al taamin b'atzmecha ad yom mosecha."
If so, when does this "menucha" kick in?
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Re: advice 19 Feb 2015 17:07 #249019

End of the rainbow...pot of gold...what?? Someone's seen too many Lucky Charms cereal commercials...Last I checked, that stuff's treif.

Principle 14 "It's never all or nothing". No pot of gold.

Principle 13 "Every Little Bit Counts". Somewhere in the handbook there's a story of someone who didn't have bechira with regard to one thing they were doing, and the rav said to say tikkunim for a while and that that would help. Remember also "schar mitzva mitzva"...the goal is a relationship with the creator of everything. Pretty cool thing to have.

OH, which is what yiraishamayim said!


Although we certainly don't want this Tayva, at the end of the day it forces us to get close to Hashem and that will ultimately bring us much Bracha.


Cool beans. I don't really know what bracha is, but the first part about getting close to Hashem kinda makes sense.

Idunno, I've been lonely enough that being close to the feller (kevayachol) who's always there for us seems the better reward. :/ in principle...just gotta realize that in practice
I've failed, but I'm still alive, no? And even not given that, perhaps I could try again.

כִּי יֹדֵעַ אֱלֹהִים כִּי בְּיוֹם אֲכָלְכֶם מִמֶּנּוּ וְנִפְקְחוּ עֵינֵיכֶם וִהְיִיתֶם כֵּאלֹהִים יֹדְעֵי טוֹב וָרָע:

The day has come...the fruit is Torah.
Last Edit: 19 Feb 2015 17:17 by long breaths long days. Reason: (Please allow fifteen minutes for posts to ferment and bake.)

Re: advice 19 Feb 2015 17:20 #249021

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long breaths long days wrote:
Last Edit: 19 Feb 2015 12:17 by long breaths long days. Reason: (Please allow fifteen minutes for posts to ferment and bake.)

LBLD, you are a panic
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"Expectation is the mother of frustration" - gibbor120
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