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decided to get some help 28 Mar 2014 00:56 #229374

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I am volunteering for 3 more months at a ballet school 3x per week\
and want to get some help with my overwhleming feelings when a ballet dancer, dress im modestly walks near me, or comes near the desk
i also want to stop watching pornography daily to masterbate to

Re: decided to get some help 28 Mar 2014 01:55 #229377

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hi dans!

welcome to the site!

we are all here to help ourselves and help each other, so go ahead and open up we all want to help each other may your first post be the first of many be"h.

looking forward to hear from you soon!!

kol tuv and hang in there.

Re: decided to get some help 28 Mar 2014 18:47 #229412

dans41 wrote:
I am volunteering for 3 more months at a ballet school 3x per week\
and want to get some help with my overwhleming feelings when a ballet dancer, dress im modestly walks near me, or comes near the desk...


Welcome Dans41,

You remind me of some of our holy sages (see Talmud Brachos 20a) who volunteered at the Ladies' Ritualarium. But they seemed to be able to manage it somehow. If you find it problematic, perhaps you should follow the old rule: If you can't take the heat, stay out of the kitchen.

Anyhow, welcome again, and good luck on your quest for sanity. Stick around and you'll surely gather some words of wisdom to help you along.

Hatzlacha

MT
Last Edit: 28 Mar 2014 22:29 by Machshovo Tova.

Re: decided to get some help 28 Mar 2014 20:38 #229420

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WELCOME BRO

good to have you here!

i dnt have any gr8 wisdom or advice, beside never giving up. ive been here since september and as of today i hav been clean 2 weeks. just keep trying, and talking to god. that is all any1 can ask of you my holy brother. and remember, your tatty loves you!

good shabbos
"....You start giving to others, and you’ll start to see your pain fade away.... If you want to kill yourself, kill what you don’t like. Kill narcissus.Kill apathy. Kill the shameful selfish looser inside of you. I had an old self that I killed..... You can kill yourself too, but that doesn't mean you got to stop living...kill the part of you that's all you and nobody else, because that's the part that makes you want to curl up and die"

"Fear plays an interesting role in our lives. How dare we let it motivate us? How dare we let it into our decision-making, into our livelihoods, into our relationships?..."

Re: decided to get some help 28 Mar 2014 21:26 #229424

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Welcome! Its great to have you here!!!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: decided to get some help 29 Mar 2014 22:15 #229435

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Welcome dans41!!!

We're all going through the same thing, more or less. You can make yourself comfortable without worrying about being looked down upon!!

What's your story? How long have you been into the porn and masturbation? Have you tried to really stop?

Don't be a stranger!! This could be a turning point in your life (as it was in mine)

KIT!!
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