startrek wrote:
The longer I go without a fall, the more I can't stand being around my wife. Everything she does or says seems to get on my nerves. I feel like moving out of the house. Is this normal?
From my own experience, I would guess it is the fear of commitment - if I really stick with this, the default is a healthy relationship with my wife - am I ready to give up all this or can I find some fault with my wife which will allow me to escape back into my cave of fantasy?
Let me share with you a major "aha" moment I had. A few years ago, I could not stop ogling any attractive woman in the street. As I was waiting at a red light, I noticed out of the corner of my eye, an attractive woman in another car. All of the sudden, I realized that it was -- my wife! (We had switched cars that day.)
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