back to the matter at hand:
if i understand your therapist he's saying, your life was bad- lucky for you though you found two friends (P&M) and they helped you through the hard times. however now you no longer need them and you should bid them farewell, cuz as long as you're paying me you're getting excellent excellent therapy and you don't need these friends so just thank them and bid adieu.
the problem with this reasoning is that he's validating them as friends, and as soon as you need them you can always fall back on them-
my humble opinion

intresting enough he never told me that i have him instead
he is saying that i have to learn to trust "let go"
then wont need theese securities

ThankuThankuThanku wrote on 25 Oct 2011 15:44:

ask him what happens if the problems come back.
is he saying you should put yourself into the hands of a higher power- like the 12 steps

of course
he says the steps and grpoups are the only way to be sober

Then he is good.

thanks real U

ur velcome

wow! are u accepting that u already r the real u?

of course he already is the real him, the real him is in a couple of pieces, he just has to put them together and he's fine

Hey I forgot about R Shlachter, you're right that's right up his alley. I don't think his approach worked too well for Uri, or Sturrgle (Was he by him also?).

By the way your guy still hasnt gotten back to me.

molei kichsa vohevel.

just felt like saying that for the fat old timers about. Not aimed at anyone. So there.

hi NB 

I only speak english. Can you please transilate. Who is R Shlachter?