I can try.

Hey Dov,

This is so true. For me at least. Can anyone else relate.

And addiction is parallel to that - it is about destroying everything. Sometimes even for those attached to us, like our friends and families.

obormottel wrote on 01 Nov 2011 05:09:


Real Me wrote on 01 Nov 2011 05:16:

Because I'm not sure that the entertainment value of this site is worth spending so much time on.
Are you getting any help here? Do you think you need help?
One of the ways to stop being lonely is to make friends with real people (duh!). Hope you can get out of isolation and into the real world soon!
Hatzlocho.

How did you figure it out? I need help! I could go  Facebook or someplace else, if I didn't need help.

So what do you need help with?
If it's in the same area that I need help with, and that most guys here need help with, than by sharing with us you can get this help. But if you don't know what your problem is, or you refuse to verbalize it, than how can people who don't know you at all, offer any help?
We are here for you, bro. Tell us what's going on.

How did you figure it out?

nu, so I figured it out. How can we help you (if you need any help, of course)?

Not easy to speak my mind, thoughts are racing. Don't know where to begin. I haave a problem with m*. Sometimes p* I have gone out with girls for sex. Someone suggestead I come here.

Real Me wrote on 01 Nov 2011 07:41:

Come here for what?
This site is mainly for Jewish Orthodox man with a tendency towards sexual compulsion/addiction. Do you fit the definition, even loosely? Just being young and sexually frustrated (aka horny) doesn't necessitate being on the same forum with people who hit rock bottom with their penis in hand. Just like enjoying a fraternity keg party doesn't necessitate registering with the AA. In fact, it may be counter-productive.
When you say, a "problem" with m*, what's you definition of a problem? 

Someone is my therapist. He told me about the site and that a lot of his clients had success here.

What do YOU think? are you finding any help so far? did you read the handbooks? are you subscribed to the daily emails? are you watching your eyes?
all those things helped me a lot, and I know a lot of guys who'd confirm that.
And posting here, of course. ;D

Yes, I am finding help. I have not read the handbooks. I am subscribed to the emails. I think I would have to say no to the next one.

wishing for the real me wrote on 31 Oct 2011 22:41:
Sometimes even those close to us? It's always those who are closest to us that suffer the most.

(Hi there!)

Hey Realme, you're back to wishing?

Methinks he was booted, or left, or something.....

Seemed like such a nice Jewish boy...