Does anyone else find that going on GUE forum would bring hirurim instead of distracting it??

Just logged in today to catch up and although it I was first feeling great. After longing on I felt stimulated for hirurim I wonder what its due to. Maybe when the Baal Duvor feels I do something good he heightens the desire (I kind of don't think so b/c the Y"H has me in his hand any way) .

Was just wandering if anyone else had this issue I would hate to have to stop using GUE/Forum because I feel it helps me.


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Yes, reading or hearing of other peoples acting out can be triggering.  I find that doing exactly what you are doing - talking about it helps greatly.  Lust hates daylight and truth.

In my experience this is a greater problem for me on the internet than it is in SA meetings.  On the internet everything is still anonymous and secret, in the rooms it is easier to connect with the pain of the person who is speaking.

Yep, it can be triggering. Good to know my moods before choosing to log in.

And lemme add a little secret. I think all the talk of falling (and for me, for example, talking about falling several times in a day) can be a little more triggering for guys with some interest in the male body.

[I won't use the word gay since some folks might not relate, but I'll simply say folks with some interest. If men have ever been arousing, you'll surely know.]

Anyhow, for me this is a problem. But I don't ask the guys to "tone it down" because I think it's helping them process their own thoughts. So the problem is mine, not theirs.

Briut - Thanks for that clarification, that definitely fits me (although I don't really understand the connection -but does it really matter at least i know what's related to) It is my problem and I have to check my mood before logging on