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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 00:57 #79818

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	Thanks for the hard work. Right now I suggest three kinds of groups and one new commitee 1. small groups of frequent potsers 2. Small groups of weekend posters 3. Small groups of bein hazemanim posters 4. A welcoming committee, who makes sure all new faces get welcomed and directed properly. And we need someone to be in charge of all this.
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by .

Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 01:12 #79826

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	I think the person in charge should have at least 650 posts under his belt.
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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 01:15 #79827

Holy Yid Current streak: 92 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Keep the mind engaged and the soul content Posts: 894 Karma: 1	world wrote on 07 Oct 2010 01:12: I think the person in charge should have at least 650 posts under his belt. Start posting away. Be the volunteer welcome committee.
	זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים Last Edit: by .

Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 01:20 #79829

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	Wait. You mean you volunteered right. That was the whole idea. Your last post wasn't clear so I want to make sure.
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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 04:00 #79849

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Hey Reb Holy Yid
I'm all about the idea of setting up a "welcome committee" this is a brilliant idea, besides of taking off of reb guard's back some work, we can maybe try to make the newcomers a little more comfortable if we addicts are the ones to welcome them & not the holy admin & they can feel the brotherhood of this forum, another thing would be gr8, that when this welcome committee is set up, besides of the standard message (what guard used to do )they will respond to every newbie, maybe if the work load is divided between a few devoted volunteers, they can design a more specific respond to each person, and direct them to the right threads, & make sure they are set up the best possible,
Just a thought,

PS if this idea is in fact gana be a reality, & there is a need for a volunteer I can try to be one for a trial period & see if I suit that hat

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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 04:06 #79850

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Hey reb T-123, its good to be in touch, u asked a very good question, well , let's be honest u all know I'm an addict & we have a nature to isolate when things don't go exactly our way (like it helps) so that's were I was when u were looking for me, but that's it I'm back to u guys & I'm actually happy to be here, here is what happened, last time I was in isolation mode, they handed me. A pink slip & told me , Yo can u JIP outta here, we had enuff of u man, & there is enuff new guys here dropping in every day in this depression state, u have been here long enuff, no more room for u its time to go get a life, & guess what , I did so, I got back color to my face & life is so wonderful in recovery. Hashem is gr8, we love u tatti

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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 07 Oct 2010 04:42 #79854

Holy Yid
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jewinpain wrote on 07 Oct 2010 04:00:

Be in touch with Reb Guard about that. Maybe IM him. Tizku lamitzvos

זכרני נא, זכרני נא, וחזקני נא אך הפעם הזה, הפעם הזה, האלקים, ואנקמה נקם אחת משתי עיני, מפלשתים

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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 08 Oct 2010 14:44 #80016

quiet OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 183 Karma: 9	I also feel ignored.
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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 08 Oct 2010 15:15 #80020

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	Me too. Well, sometimes.
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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 08 Oct 2010 15:31 #80021

123.trying.123
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I also felt very ignored after the initial welcoming period...

After a while I got in touch with some members with personal messages and I have my 'guys' who I know I can turn to etc. You can try it and see how it goes...

Also I believe that people aren't ignoring, it's that it's impossible to keep up with every thread (I know I can't...)...

Another idea is to start a new thread every once in a while...

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Re: Are we all feeling ignored? RECENTLY UPDATED 08 Oct 2010 15:33 #80022

123.trying.123 Current streak: 10 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 636 Karma: 0	R' JIP, It's great to have you back... That's great that you were able to pick yourself up like that... Keep it up!!
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