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Re: yechida's reflections 05 Dec 2009 20:55 #32423

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	HEAVY
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by sim987.

Re: yechida's reflections 05 Dec 2009 22:44 #32453

habib613	:'(
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Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 12:16 #32580

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	beautiful yechida. Wondering who this Tzaddik is that told you to leave the forum. Does he realize all the good you do?? But ive learnt not to question higher authority.
	Last Edit: by yossi1.

Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 12:36 #32592

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	After contacting this Tzadik about the good Yechidah offers to our forum, I got his Haskama that Yechidah can return!
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by פלוני.

Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 12:44 #32598

imtrying25 Current streak: 16 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3010 Karma: 2	Once again doing what it takes to help klal yisrael. Guard your the ~~guardest~~ greatest.
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Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 17:04 #32624

7yipol Current streak: 3 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder YES HE CAN! Posts: 4686 Karma: 12	guardureyes wrote on 06 Dec 2009 12:36: After contacting this Tzadik about the good Yechidah offers to our forum, I got his Haskama that Yechidah can return! [i]YIPPEEEEEEEEEEEEE :D :D :D :D :-[ :-[ :-[ Ooops; forgot Im the Rebbitzen here... ...little decorum necessary... :-[ :-[ :-[ YIPPEEEEEEEE
	Hashem is addicted to you! Feel His hugs!"Sheva yipol tzaddik VKUM" Last Edit: by Arthur S. .

Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 22:45 #32737

habib613	YABBA DABBA DOOOOOO!!!!! YAY!!!!!
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Re: yechida's reflections 06 Dec 2009 22:53 #32740

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Welcome back, Yechida!
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by mosh45.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 00:49 #32751

TrYiNg	WELCOME BACK!!!!!!! PARTY TIME.... :D :D :D :D :D
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Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 01:15 #32762

kedusha Current streak: 717 days OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 3167 Karma: 46	Time for me to pretend I'm leaving in order to get some attention! ;D
	Just as an alcoholic needs to avoid that first sip, a lust addict needs to avoid that first slip.Slip today? No way! ;)Fall today? No way, Jose'! Last Edit: by azbrym.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 02:59 #32770

sunnycheetah84 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1043 Karma: 0	Maybe start a special thread for that!
	Rashi, Breishis (10:25) Last Edit: by ithiam.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 15:10 #32852

yechidah
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Dear friends,

I missed all of you.

I'm out of town and on a hotel computer and I have not spoken to Guard yet about what this tzaddik said to him after i was instructed to leave.But I will take R Guard's word that the decision was reversed and I will post something I saw in "In Forest Fields" by Rabbi Arush

Knowing that everything comes Hashem,one can find encouragement and avoid falling into darkness and despair.Despair ruins hope,as if there is no way out of his problem and nothing to do,as if the stern judgement is irreversible.

There is no such thing as "nothing to do" about a problem or predicament.

It only seems that way to a man's limited vision,for in truth one does not know where salvation will come from.

Indeed one should not worry about where the solution will come from

Rather,he should thank Hashem for the problem itself,for surely it is for his ultimate benefit,whether to arouse him to a deep repentance or to cleanse him or for mant other reasons,all to help the person become what he or she is supposed to.

Hashem can take the worst situation and turn it around completely around for the good

So none of us here should let the idea that we have these dark challenges within ourselves cause us to fall into despair

It is exactly the opposite.

whem we 'fight' or as we are told,to be brave enough to 'let go',and leave everything in Hashem's Hands,we will see over time that the greatest blessings in life come from those things that we thought were the worst things that happened to us.

And that very dark and poweful desire for unhealthy things is the very fuel and very source of the greatness that is within you,that you WILL SEE VERY CLEARLY EVEN IN THIS WORLD,once you finally allow Hashem to pull you out, and bring you in,because it is then that you will be who you truely are.

After recovery,make sure not to think that you wasted a big chunk of your life.

No matter how long it took to pull out of this (AND YOU WILL PULL OUT,YOU ABSOLUTELY WILL)

Nothing in your life is wasted

And in retrospect,even those dark times,or especially those dark times will have great and deep meaning.

B'Ahavah Rabba

yechida

Last Edit: by yehoshuab.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 15:17 #32856

letakain OFFLINE Platinum Boarder KOTNMW Posts: 5036 Karma: 64	I'm so happy that you're back!!!! I'm so happy that you're back!!!! I'm so happy that you're back!!!! I'm so happy that you're back!!!! how u doing?? i love your posts but what about u?
	I am proud of myself today because of who I am becoming with progress, not perfection one day at a time I am a pickle, and I'll never be a cucumber again. and pickles are YUM! my thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/6-Women-on-the-way-to-90-Days/248941-Letakains-internet-addiction-journal Last Edit: by sfas emes.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 15:25 #32859

yechidah OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 4264 Karma: 91	Boruch Hashem,things are going well,but I was having withdrawal symptoms from not posting.as well as experiencing the ups and downs in life;I have to learn to see Hashem in everything,and all all times,which I know will take alot of work,and davening and help from Hashem. I'm on my way back home Hatzlacha Rabbah Kallah
	Last Edit: by av1020.

Re: yechida's reflections 07 Dec 2009 15:27 #32862

the.guard Current streak: 805 days OFFLINE Moderator Posts: 6438 Karma: 138	I have not spoken to Guard yet about what this tzaddik said to him after i was instructed to leave. I sent you an e-mail. Didn't get it?
	Webmaster of www.guardyoureyes.org - Maintaining Moral Purity in Today's World. We’re here on a quest ; it’s really all a test. Just do your best and G-d will do the rest. Last Edit: by Chaya k.