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Re: yechida's reflections 04 Jan 2015 05:42 #246516

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Re: yechida's reflections 08 Feb 2015 21:46 #248322

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For both married & single people

very often, beautiful things are born in your life when initially it was looked upon as a big disappointment
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a great painter was painting his masterpiece.Even half way done it was absolutely breathtaking,no one had ever seen such beauty in a painting ever before.

suddenly while painting something happens that never happened before.A severe spasm shoots through his painting hand leaving on the wonderful canvas a long dark black stroke,an absolute devastation

A smaller painter would have cried,raged at his stupidity,and smashed the canvas against the wall-shattering it forever.

But this painter is great.He is not to let a black dark streak break him.He has Plan B.He adjusts his original formula,and he says I will make this canvas so beautiful,so breathtaking,that not only will the black streak not ruin it,it will enhance it.It will become part of and integral to the greatness and awesomeness of this Masterpiece that looking back wasn't Plan B but Plan A all along
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Re: yechida's reflections 13 Feb 2015 18:38 #248632

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28 New Poems - have a great Shabbos!!!

1

God
My Therapist
Sessions are Free
Available 24/7
Confidential, Trustworthy
Understands me
Beyond
My own (very limited)
Self knowledge

True Kindness
Underlying everything
In His Interaction
With me

I pray to Him
Seeking/yearning
His Gentle Guidance

2

Prism
What vast manifestation
Of myriad joys!!!

3

(Active Serenity)

Above Dark Clouds
Sun shines brightly
Even as walking
On this Earth
Wind & rainstorms about
Serene sould
Feel the sunshine
Above the dark Clouds

It is great comfort
Truly serene people
Give to many
Turbulent souls

Serenity
Combines with positive action
Bringing light
Into
The places of darkness

Sunlight
Piercing the clouds
Turning dark turmoil
Into beautiful scenery
Of God’s wonderful world

Joseph
Didn’t just survive
In the dark storm
Of Egypt
He thrived!!

Bring life & vitality
To a dark place
Paving the way for us
To do the same
Within our own Egypt
Until the day
Of our
Personal & national
Exodus


4

I rejoice
In recognizing
My spiritual lack
His gift to me
Saving me
By his showing me
My deficiencies
So as to improve
For this alone
I rejoice!!!

5

Master “Programmer”
Can be seen
In His
Apple seed

6

My Body
On loan
From God

7

Living in the present
Connecting with God
Here & now

8

Exile
A symbol of fragmentation
Yearning for Oneness
Connecting together
All parts
Of One life

9

Sleep
Miracle of renewal
Healing the cracks
Of a tired soul

10
(Lightning Lesson)

There
Is a
Supreme Design
Within
“chaos”

Hiding of
His Face

Us being behind
The veil
Is difficult

Healing begins
When
Recalling experience
Of the piercing of the veil
-even for a brief moment
Of the light that pierced
The cloak of darkness

As a severe
Dark storm
On a black night
Suddenly
A lightning bolt
Clear as a sunny day
Only to close back
Into darkness again

We save that precious
Bright image
In our heart
Knowing that it will guide us
Until the sun
Finally spreads over
The horizon

11

I never had a girlfriend
Was told
Its nonsense

I know the tangled knots
That
Boy/girl friendships
Can create

Nevertheless
With certainly I say
Its not nonsense
Misused in our day perhaps
But not nonsense

True
On a practical level
It’s a very rare instance
That such relationships
Are truly healthy

But there is indeed
A truth
Of a friendship
Softened by
The feminine aspect
Of nurturing gentleness
Of healing & trust

Even in a marriage of soul mates
This friendship needs to be
A crucial aspect
Of this connection
In order to survive & flourish
Without which
The marriage will wither

12

Infinite wisdom
On Earth

If only wewould see
What lesson for me
Was meant to be
From every aspect
Of God’s world
Entrusted to us

13

Thank you
For cold milk

Fridge
God’s food storage
For our benefit

14

Inner spark
Caged within walls
Of darkness
We do not value it
We imprison it
Redeem the spark
Free it from
Its prison
So it can shine forth

Spark itself
Dark
Unwilling to reveal its light
Until she feels valued
By the effort
To redeem her
For only by feeling
Loved & valued
Will it shine

15

True Wisdom
Is Beauty
-accepting
The Kingdom of God-
That’s beauty

As God expresses
To us
Infinite Kindness
Giving us the opportunity
To emulate Him

16

External Beauty
Not reflecting
Inner soul’s beauty
Is
False
Deceptive salesman
Model of emptiness

A truly beautiful woman
Will
Externally
Make herself
When she is shaping & molding
Her inner beauty

All beauty
Is a loan from God
To express it
To His pleasure

For the landscaper,painter,author
Designer
All capacities
Beauty is
A gift
To use (& possess)
wisely

17

(Humble gifts)

Small meal
To the King
In exile
More precious
Than delicacies
In palace

18

We improve
Our inner selves

Flaws in others
Not relevant
To our essence
Of self correction

19

Making an effort
When not feeling well
Either physically, emotionally
Or spiritually

Not to focus on that feeling

Focus on giving pleasure
To my Creator

20

Even menial tasks
In shorts spurts of time
Can bring my King pleasure
Knowing
Im serving God
During that time
In my own small way

21

Migraine
Pounding
What a relief
When
Its
Not there

22

“Do not let what you cannot do
Interfere with what you can do”
(John Wooden)

For this pearl alone
Im glad you were here
On Earth

23

Gentle kind sister

I missed your presence
In my life

Perhaps God hid you
From me
So that I would
Appreciate you
Infinitely more

24

Brain Power
Only worthwhile
When utilized
In a practical way
Making yourself better
Enriching humanity
As a Whole


25

Respect
The differences
In human beings
Free will
Can be used
Constructively or destructively
With every quality
Every capability
Every form
Of intelligence & emotion

We respect that spark of goodness
That can spread in the world
When chosen wisely

26 (Feb)

Healer
Of body & soul
Embrace the broken
Making it whole

27

Compassion
In its truest sense
Is to embrace
The inner good within

In some cases
cruelty is compassion
when isolating the cruelty
upon the truly evil
saving innocent victims
from potential
harm

28

Struggles of Humanity
Precious
Over the pure angels in heaven
Who never tasted sin or despair

God loves us
& our work
In the trenches

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Re: yechida's reflections 01 Mar 2015 17:55 #249648

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Re: yechida's reflections 06 Mar 2015 16:28 #249985

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Additional 17 Poems

have a great Shabbos!!!

1

What a privilege
to walk
on
God’s streets

2

With diligent study
We can finally
“catch on”
To the idea
That God
Is Truly Kind

3

Waves
Crashing unto
Land’s surface
Never giving up

4

Is there
A way
To remove honey
Without the sting?

Most often in life
Honey & sting received together

Yet
With certain wisdom
In handling the bee
We can receive
Stingless honey

5

Light of Moon
In dark sky
Is the sun
Telling us in code
I am not dead
I will come up again

6

Sometimes
Our lacking
Something vital
Is God’s gift to us
Teaching us
To have compassion
Within us
Never to lose it

7

Till the soil
So crops may grow

Refuel the body
So that the soul
May show

8

May inner joy
Always be there
Within our hearts

Externalities
Not affecting it
Adversely

9

Peace of mind

Gift
That opens
All gifts

10

Human Beings
Such complex machines
Where is the manual?
Is it buried deep within?

I pray to God
To reveal to me
The manual
Of my life
On this world

Blueprint of Life
Torah

We need special help
To understand the Blueprint
The way it is meant to be understood

11

Help me God
To be
humble & simple
as You guide me
Through
The complexities
Of life

Guide my heart
To your Oneness
Channeling
All parts of Life
To the One

Whether weekday
Or Shabbos
At home & work
Or at shul
Through all seasons of life
Help me please thrive
In the presence
Of your Oneness




12


Family I was born into
Family I married into
Family within our home

Every Family
With its History

Complex connections
(or disconnections)
Within each one

13

Learn from mistakes
They are made
To teach me
Not haunt me

14

Rest the body
To
Rejuvenate
The soul

15

Very little point
Running after money
Without praying
To the One
To Whom all money
Is His

Very little point
Seeking true wisdom
Without praying
To the One
To Whom all wisdom
Is His

16

.We alone
Are the cause
Separating ourselves
By creating the veil
Denying us
Light & good
That God designed
For us


17

Muzzle/reins
To an ox
External to it
While in humans
The ability to muzzle
& rein in our unhealthy impulses
Is intrinsic
Deep within

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Re: yechida's reflections 12 Mar 2015 22:31 #250416

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Additional 10 Poems -have a great Shabbos!!

1

Remembering
An overlooked friend
Warm socks
On a cold snowy day

2

(Tasteless Joke)

I told my wife
“I am giving you something
To show
That you are worth more than 2 cents”

I then handed her
A 2 dollar bill

(Thank God she laughed so I didn’t end up in the dog house)

3

Words
Children of Thought

4

External
\words of teacher
Become
Deep profound thoughts\
Of student
Who hears it

Then
The student
Asks & probes
Teacher receives the student’s challenge
Creating
Even deeper concepts
Within the teacher

4

“Nature”

A miracle in constant motion

5
(written on my anniversary)

Often
Familiarity
Of those close to us
Creates
Greatest distance

Delicate balance-
Respect
Within
Intimate closeness

There is complacency
Within relationships
Of greater time-spans
When refreshing connection
& vitality
Requires more work

Yet within this work
There is great vigor & excitement
As old wellsprings
Bring forth life-giving
Fresh water
From its depths
To quench the thirst
Of a meaningful connection

Pray to God
To renew us
Every day
So as to see “old” gifts
As if we just received it
Today

6

(Purim)

Rain/Snow
Symbol of God’s Gift
On this special day

Rain
Life given
To the fruits of the earth
Ready to emerge

White snow
Healing the deathly
Fake-white leprosy
Removing evil speech
Erasing darkness
From our hearts

We are all
Royalty
Today

We all have Esther’
In every
Daughter of Israel
In every
Wife & mother

She is royalty
The Queen
Whose eternal words
(& her silences as well)
Were gifted to us today

We are Mordechai
Never will we bow down
To evil

The gallows
Our enemies prepared for us
Will be used
To hang these very enemies
Who prepared it!!!

7

In growing & developing ourselves
It may feel
As if we are
Going in circles

It’s ok
We are ascending
A spiral staircase

8

(Hemingway vs Faulkner)

Hemingway
Simple surface words
Beautifully & economically crafted
99% of the “iceberg”
Beneath the water
Hidden there
Beneath the words

Faulker
Complex deep words
Beautifully written
As a painting of the highest order
99% of the “iceberg”
What is beneath the water
Is described beautifuly
While the 1% tip of the iceberg
The simple but brilliant concept
Is hidden
Beneath the words

Each degraded
The other’s writing style
Not appreciating the importance
& the beauty
Of conveying
Opposite ends
of the same human condition

9
In winter
We respect
Roots
That sends
Its influence
In the spring!!!

10
(Good deeds)

No matter how you feel
Do it anyway!!!!

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