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Re: yechida's reflections 05 Oct 2012 08:37 #145580

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May we be there whenever we close our eyes, wherever we may be. Beautiful reminder of the simplicity of the most important thing in life.
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: yechida's reflections 05 Oct 2012 13:31 #145593

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Branches swaying in the wind
Waving “hello” to me
Be happy with God’s world!!!

Be happy with yourself!!!

Be happy with the gift of a brand new day!!!

Re: yechida's reflections 05 Oct 2012 13:44 #145596

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yechida wrote on 05 Oct 2012 13:31:

Be happy with the gift of a brand new day!!!

And a beautiful day it is.

Re: yechida's reflections 05 Oct 2012 16:00 #145600

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Defeating doubt
by Audrey Coatesworth



A poem about doubts related to aspects of life or projects - those negative thoughts that enter our minds, uninvited.


Defeating doubt

'How did you find the way

Into my thoughts', I ask

'I do not know you, yet

You spoil my present task

Who gave you permission?

To affect how I decide?

And what purpose brings you

To sit at my bedside?'





'You have previously not



Had the pleasure to know

My name is Doubt

Other pictures I show

Making you question

Your views without Hope

Your certainties fade

With your ability to cope'





'Go away, I won't listen



Advantage you take

Of me being tired

You make a mistake

Yes, I was listening

And I almost believed

That you were right

You are not! I'm relieved'





The image of Doubt



Then began to fade

Inner pictures brightened



Of future plans made

Yes, I am tired,

Yes, I have been ill

But I have managed

The long hours to fill





Doubt never helped me



In any way

Just undermined conviction

And ruined the day

No friend of mine

Casts a gloom on my mind

So, I call upon Hope

The answers to find





'I'm glad you've returned'



To Hope, I said

'I cannot see truth

With doubt's words in my head’

'I can only return

When you send Doubt away

Then we are able, together,

To greet every day





Re: yechida's reflections 10 Oct 2012 14:35 #145728

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The greatest part of our wisdom
It to learn
Not to rely on one’s own perceptions implicitly
To be humble
To know ones limits
& the inherent restraints
To one’s capacity of
Thoughts & emotions

So that even when you “get it right”
& see the truth of things
You do not become arrogant
For it is then when the gift of enlightenment
& ones intellect
Begins to slip & slide
Into darkness & confusion

Thus real wisdom
Always has true humility
At its foundation

Re: yechida's reflections 11 Oct 2012 12:28 #145850

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Satiation of physical hungers & desires
(even when permitted by the Torah)
Leads to arrogance
& forgetting God

It’s the gratitude & thanks to God
Subsequent to the (permissible) satiation
That prevents this arrogance
From taking place

Re: yechida's reflections 12 Oct 2012 13:18 #145992

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We are believers
Sons of believers

But we can’t only rely
On our inherited faith

We must develop emunah
Inherently on our own

So that it becomes
An intrinsic part of our selves

Re: yechida's reflections 15 Oct 2012 12:23 #146157

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One needs spiritual strength
So as to accept abundant blessings
In a healthy way

“May God bless you
& safeguard you”

Blessing requires “safeguarding”
The inner ability
To accept the blessing

It’s the observance of mitzvos
From which this spiritual/mental strength is revealed
To accept a overflow
Of loving open blessings
Even the most tangible physical of them
Without causing any damage at all
And even becoming elevated
In joy & service of God
Through this safeguarded blessing
Enjoying the infinite
Within the finite

Re: yechida's reflections 16 Oct 2012 12:33 #146220

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Resting in bed
After a long day
What a gift
This peaceful haven
For my weary body
Soothing the mind
As I review
So many of God’s kindnesses
That took place
During the day

Re: yechida's reflections 17 Oct 2012 17:03 #146281

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Asking God
To remove
Your free-will
So that you shouldn’t do wrong:

That too
Is free-will!!!!

Re: yechida's reflections 18 Oct 2012 12:46 #146319

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Sometimes
It’s better
To abstain from (even permissible)
Physical pleasures
So that when one does engage in them
He (or she) can focus
On the holy essence within it
& not drown
In the physicality
That surrounds the pure holy spark
Which is the source
Of true joy
That will endure forever

Re: yechida's reflections 18 Oct 2012 19:53 #146349

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To A Leaf
by Rebecca S Russell


Last spring
I eagerly awaited
Your arrival
After the cold winter.
You,
As a tender green shoot
Upon a barren brown twig,
Were a welcome sight.
I watched you grow
So rapidly,
Each vein and crease
A mirror
Of your siblings'
As you crowded
Together,
Offering shade
And shelter
To me,
To squirrels,
And to countless birds
Throughout
The long summer;
But soon
The seasons began to change
Yet again
And I watched you go
From green
To gold
To brown-speckled
Before the autumn winds
Blew you from
Your parent tree.
Another winter,
Cold and dark,
Will pass
Before you reappear,
Continuing the cycle
As Nature's small, green herald
Of awakening life.

Re: yechida's reflections 18 Oct 2012 21:22 #146358

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Delicious, thanks again, Yechidah!
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: yechida's reflections 19 Oct 2012 13:52 #146389

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If your soul
Needs a “light”
From a particular mitzvah
God arranges
An opportunity
That mitzvah generated light
That your soul
Particularly needs

Re: yechida's reflections 19 Oct 2012 15:37 #146396

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Silence (The Teacher series)
by Myrna D Badgerow



Silence

The Teacher gazes upon those gathered around him. "Welcome, my children!" he exclaims and smiles because he knows some here have traveled more miles and have seen many more years than has he.

"Sir, what will we speak of today?" asks a young woman seated near his side.

"I think today we will share our thoughts on Silence," he says and watches as the gathered exchange glances.

An older man speaks up. "Sir, what is there to say about Silence? It would seem to be somewhat lacking in description and discussion."

"One would think so but Silence can sometimes speak to us in volumes," he says and then settles himself more comfortably before he begins.

"Volumes, Sir? How is that possible? The very definition of Silence would make one believe this cannot be," a young man rises as he speaks and the Teacher sees the puzzled look upon his face.

"Silence, my son, is a perception. If we only focus on the literal meaning, it would have us believe that it is merely the absence of sound. There is so much to be heard in Silence. However, the key is to listen, to become one with the moment, so that you will feel Silence within you. Then, and only then, will you hear the beautiful sounds that await you," the Teacher responds.

"But, Sir, Silence has no sound, does it not?" asks another young one.

The Teacher smiles, "Silence has many sounds but they are heard within our hearts and souls. They are felt within each of us and upon every breath we take. But, we must be willing to listen, to believe in what we hear, and to be thankful for the gift. Silence can be gentle and loving but it can also be tainted with anger and distrust. It can be hued with uncertainty or even a misguided sense of superiority, but Silence can also offer us the most vivid of dreams, the depths of our sorrows, and the treasured moments of our reality. It can illuminate old memories and create new ones to treasure."

He pauses for a moment, glances out among his captive audience, and sees thoughtful expressions on many faces.

"Silence can be found in every sunrise and every sunset. It can be especially sweet between two who love deeply and need no spoken words to let the other feel that love. It is there in the very silence surrounding them. My children, the true essence of Silence is there for each of us to define and embrace. The possibilities are endless if we but listen, if we but believe in the power of unspoken words, the beauty of nature's song, and the melody of His creation.

Go now, my children, and open your hearts, release your souls, and hear the Silence of your world, feel its spirit within you. And remember to allow yourselves to dream and to believe," he says as he rises to leave them.

He smiles once more as he begins to walk away for the gathered are silent, but he feels every thought, every realization, and every unspoken word.



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