yup, so being a bachur ALREADY ON GYE is better than a married man on GYE. thnx KG. Verry well put too.
Another point, there is a classified thread for married people, that allows them to discuss the marriadge aspects of this addiction. Everything they deal with on there will become our problem if we don't deal with this addiction before marriage.
If you truly care for the girl, and want to love her, and care for her every need.... then do so by dealing with this addiction. First the 90 days, then re-learning how to veiw women, then learning how to love/as upposed to lusting. and what comes after that I don't even know.
If you still have reservations, drop me a line (PM Email). Personaly I am stubborn as a mule about dealing with this. And I never would consider therapy, except over the phone (which I did have 3 sessions). If you are dragging your feet about this, I've been there, typo I'm still there.