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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 08 Dec 2009 22:32 #33334

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Does anyone know if the SA White Book is available online??
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 08 Dec 2009 22:40 #33336

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Yiddle2 wrote on 08 Dec 2009 22:32:

Does anyone know if the SA White Book is available online??


www.guardureyes.com/GUE/PDFs/eBooks/White%20Book.pdf
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 08 Dec 2009 22:41 #33337

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Thanks Guard but what are you doing up this late?? :o
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 20 Dec 2009 14:49 #36065

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Hey all,

I ah....Fell last night. My 3 week journey came to an end. This was my longest streak yet so b'h I am not down on myself because I know I can get back there. I know the 12 step program has to be working or I wouldnt make it even 3 days. I know Hashem wants me to get better, He is just telling me so in an extreme way (atleast in my eyes). I know Hashem just wants me to get closer to Him and knows that I can best do it through this addiction. I know.

-Yiddle
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 20 Dec 2009 15:40 #36080

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ur a-ok man.
so true, He wants you to be close with Him.
and no three week journey came to an end.
i think your journey is continuing on.
ups and downs are all part of the derech.
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 20 Dec 2009 16:08 #36092

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My 3 week journey came to an end.


If you walked for 3 weeks through rain and snow, to get to the yeshivah of your dreams, and suddenly you hit a rock, tripped and fell... did your three week journey come to an end?? Of-course not!! You just need to get up, brush off the mud and snow, and continue on!

You'll be there in no time.

Only a fool would think that a fall means he needs to slide all the way back home...    :D As long as you don't give up, you are still exactly where you left off.
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 21 Dec 2009 23:04 #36585

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Yiddle -

I love you, man. You had a great, long streak. THAT'S GEVALDIK. don't get down, get to work. Our lives are gonna be filled with struggles. This is ours for now. We'll make it, then there will be other struggles.

Brush yourself off, and when you start again, look around. You are NOT where u were 3 weeks ago. You are higher up the mountain. You are NOT beginning from the same place you started. You never were.

Take my hand, I'm pulling you up to the next ledge with me. Sit down and rest, you can't fall here. Then we'll climb again together.

"see" you on the call tomorrow, and you better be smilin'!!
No one is so small that he can not give help, and no one is so big that he doesn't need it.

Kol HaOlam Kulo, Gesher Tzar Meod, V'HaIkkar: Lo L'Pacheid Klal.
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 01:02 #36599

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Thank you very much "Pickle" Steve,

I appreciate you lending out the hand to a fellow struggler. We all need that hand at some point.

-Yiddle
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 10:40 #36714

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just call on your brother
when you need a hand
we all need somebody to lean on
you just might have a problem
that id understand
we all need somebody to lean on
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:36 #36747

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sturggle wrote on 22 Dec 2009 10:41:

:'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(
I WANNA DELETE MY OWN ON ANY AND EVERY BOARD WHENEVER I WANT TO!!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!

:D :D :D :D :D :D :D
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:37 #36749

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MOM!!!
He's laughing at me!!!
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:39 #36751

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What am i suposed to do when you make a fool out of yourself?? ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:43 #36760

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encouraging...
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:47 #36761

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Hey Struggle, Don't listen to IT, he's just in a good mood because he was at the kumzitz and us losers weren't.
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Re: Please gimme some Chizuk and or Mussar. 22 Dec 2009 11:53 #36767

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Kollel Guy wrote on 22 Dec 2009 11:47:

Hey Struggle, Don't listen to IT, he's just in a good mood because he was at the kumzitz and us losers weren't.
Thats where you go wrong. Sturggle was there!!!
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