Your brain is a very delicate place, here is a care list for proper shipping and handling:

There are lots of deferent wires in there, dont mess with them unless you are properly trained.

For optimal use, make sure to recharge it fully, daily.

There is not warranty, do be careful. 

In case of emergency call the costumer service line at: 1-646-GYE-6600.

Keep away from children.

For best results, use, rinse, and use again.

If tamper evident seal is broken, do not use, call costumer service and follow prompts.



If you have any more feel free to post!!!

Have a happy and Lechtiga Chanika!!!

Lesson of the day: If you feel an urge coming on, nip 'em in the bud or the b**t.... whatever

Let it sink in and become part of you, second (or first) nature, automatic reactions, subconscious trains of thought, natural impulses, can all be changed. Time will heal, given the correct ingredients. 

​I find myself chronically thinking about GYE, all day every day, and it gives me mixed feelings. On the one hand, its a positive, cuz my mind is occupied by kosher thoughts, but on the other hand, i now have another sugya that my mind is constantly busy with, i want to get to a place where my mind is clear and fresh like a breeze after a rain. No more racing thoughts and mixed emotions, no more occupiers in my mind, but a mind that is all mine and free to think.  
Please Lmk if you have gone through this stage, and what worked for you. 


Oh well, i will get there one day, one day at a time.        

Dear iyh2023,

What a great point, I can relate to this very much.

I sometimes find GYE takes up too much space in my mind and try to take a step back. It gets better as time goes by, you will find the right balance/boundaries, and sometimes I mess up with that too, but hey, it's certainly better to mess up with this than other things!

Cultivating and nurturing the special relationships we have made here offline is also an art, while it is a life saver and gamechanger, it takes up brainspace/time and is a work in progress for me. Ultimately, we aren't perfect and there's always room for tweaking things to better suit our needs. 

I think our friend connected has some wise words to say about this, see his post from earlier today.

(He's either on the phone (finally!), or still stuck in the Cande Shoppe...)

Take it easy!

-Youknowwho

Those thoughts sound very familiar.... Theres one thought that I have that you didnt mention - what will I think about when my mind will be all mine and free to think?

I’m not even sure what free to think means….?!

I tell myself that When I was (am) thinking about inappropriate vids/pics/live things I’ve seen, I  was thinking to myself I want to think about GYE, Vayimaen etc. but then hey I’m thinking why to much about GYE. But L’masah who says that that is in issue? What will I think about when I stop thinking about GYE or what will I think about when my mind will be free to think?

I don’t know, I’ll eight be thinking about where I came from (inappropriate vids/pics/live things) or I’ll be dead.

Anyways, keep on thinking and growing

Heeling wrote on 19 Dec 2023 19:50:

I just said it cuz it sounds poetic... just kidding, i mean that WHEN i think it should be thunk freely and lucid!! 

iyh2023 wrote on 19 Dec 2023 21:01:

If you want to thunk freely and lucid,
buy an axe and swing at a tree while not doing drugs

foolie wrote on 19 Dec 2023 21:06:

LOL, thanks R' Foolie for the good laugh!! although im not quite sure what your trying to point out, even though im not doing drugs....

was pointing out to be lucid one shouldn't be doing drugs otherwise when they thunk it may be freely but certainly not lucid

foolie wrote on 19 Dec 2023 21:19:

Great point, another tip is, to be lucid you should try to avoid stubbing your pinky toe.....  

I have a question, and i know that it has nothing to do with our common struggle, but please dont lambast me for posting, if you feel that it doesnt belong here, i will be glad to remove it. 
Here goes: What is the western worlds view on p&m, and by western world i mean the leaders and thinkers, not the youth and ignorant. This question is important to me because it can shed some light on where the whole industry is coming from and what is backing it. 
If you find this post to be triggering or offensive, I'm truly sorry and i'll be glad to conform.

Best of luck!!   

Check out fight the new drug. Its a organization dedicated to letting people know about the dangers of porn. I have heard elon musk talk about the dangers of social media, so im assuming the same goes for porn. But definitely check out ftnd, online or with their "consider before consuming" podcast.

Generally speaking and this is my understanding so please go pile onto someone else who cares. The Western world essentially has a Judeo-Christian morality that it theoretically holds by, therefore technically they should abhor the industry, however in the days of free thinkers, political correctness and woke agendas the government essentially ignores this as free speech 

@foolie Very true, considering that technology is the opiate of the masses, and porn is essentially the most potent form of it. But the people who actually think is what i think iyh2023 is asking about. Ftnd is very good in the fact that they aren't a religious organization, so none of the good old fashion "eternal damnation" stuff. But yes the mindless masses who are forever destined to wallow in pixels don't count in this regard. And if you want information about technology addiction (not just porn) there's a book called "irresistible" about it. I forgot the name of the author

So last night i was thinking about the metaphor we know, that "life is like a roller coaster", i thought about it and realized, that there are so many powerful  ways that life is like a roller coaster, i decided to post it here to see if anyone has anymore.

1. the obvious, it has ups and downs.
2. no roller coaster is free to ride.
3. once your on, you gotta stay till the end, you might as well enjoy it.
4. no 2 roller coasters are the same.
​5. you can learn to appreciate them. (been there, done that, the roller coaster part....)
6. at the time that you get on, it has the exact route it will take.
7. its always more enjoyable with a friend.
8. it took a smart man to build it.
9. no need to worry, there are seat belts.
10. if you dont enjoy them, you cant understand how some people do. (been there, done that....)
11. if you enjoy them, its pure ecstasy. (been there, done that)


I think that each one is worthy of its own thread, so think about them and think about them again!!
Feel free to add some more!!!