Hey all,

Had this idea if anyone's maskim;
I wanted to get together with a bunch of guys on here and make a little club in honor of the upcoming yomim noraim. To join the club you just gotta  make any small little kabala in an area you struggle with. I've heard that any even tiny kaballa in areas of kedusha can bring with them huge amounts of schar, and we know from R' Yisroel Salanter as well that even a tiny kabala can greatly enhance the power of how Yom Kippur will go for us. I think that doing this together with a bunch of guys can give tremendous chizzuk for us as we go through these days. For me personally every year Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur can be hard as I think of all the shmutz that I went through the past year. I think that it would be a tremendous chizzuk to go into the yomim noraim knowing that I am part of a large number of guys that made a kaballa and that are trying actively to do better and be better.
To join just reply here on the forum, if you wanna write your kabala as well that would be awesome.
Let's do this together and show them in shamayim how much we care and how much we're trying to do better!

My kabala: absolutely no porn or masturbation from erev rosh hashana until yom kippur. 

Nice idea!

My kabala – absolutely no porn and no masturbation from now until the last day of my life.

@iwannalivereal you wrote no porn or masturbation, is it either or, or no to both?

Also, is it until yom kipper or until after yom kipper? If its until after, then do you hold 60 or 72?

This is a beautiful idea!!!
I will bl'n try to bentch from a bentcher at least the first bracha (shoutout R' Bright), shemonah esrei from a siddur for the first bracha.
They say looking inside is mesakain the eyes from the tumah of not being careful with them

Shkoach harav heeling for adding a kabbala!

2 points - 1) I wasn't looking to start a discussion over here about my own personal kabbala, was just trying to give and get chizzuk, I thought that anyone that wants to join would just write their kabala or whatever. If you want to know when yom kippur ends for me for whatever reason pm me 2) You can do what you want but making a kabbala from now until the end of your life?!? I mean do what you want but like my understanding from my rebbeim is that a shpitz kabala is a small one that you know with almost certainty that you can keep. On top of that i've heard from r yisroel salanter that a small real kabala can be a huge part of teshuva even if you are not ready to be mekabel more than that. My point on the forum was just to be mechazek and for those that are thinking of trying to make some sort of small (or big) kabala lets be mechazek and do it together.

Dear Healing,

Please do not be sarcastic to people trying to improve. Perhaps things that are easy for you, are much more difficult for others.

Im Mekabel Bli Neder not to look at all the women when im walking to night seder for the rest of the zman.

Beautiful stuff! I'm mekabel, from now until after YK to at least 5 times a day be misgaber on my YH who wants me to take a good look at the pritzus on the street.
I don't want to change the topic, but shout-out to my friend eyes, and Pvibes, and some others, whose inspiration holds me strong when I want to just peak for a second at how terrible the streets are.

I was thinking, I want to make a kabbala that I will start a click-it club. See this post guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/388203-Its-all-in-the-name?limit=15&start=375#400816
So, I'm ordering a clicker now, and beH when it comes we'll start a clicker-clique. The dividends go to our dear friend IWLR.

iwannalivereal wrote on 14 Sep 2023 19:10:

My dear friend, great idea! Of course small kabbalos are the way to go! I would humbly suggest adding a tinsy kabbala for the whole year besides from R"H to Y"K.

Alright Reb Eerie, ill IYH do the same 

This is fantastic stuff! 
I used to learn from a sefer on Shmiras Enyayim and Kedusha each night for a few minutes. I have not been doing so for the past few weeks. I am Mikabeil to begin doing so again, with a firm (bl"n) commitment until after Simchas Torah, but hopefully to continue on beyond that time as well.  

chaimoigen wrote on 18 Sep 2023 01:51:

Which sefer do you use?

not to search for any keywords that can arouse an urge... until after succos.

Progress report: I got a clicker counter
First day RH 5 times looked away. 2nd day didn't walk around on the street much.

Hi Guys
Thanks Eerie for nominating me again

Wow, I think If I had that clicker It would have been out of battery already.

When its hot; its hot

Saved me many times