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Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 12:45 #396141

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Sapy wrote on 24 May 2023 02:29:

Grant400 wrote on 24 May 2023 01:43:
Quite often, I want to act out, not to experience the pleasure, but to rid myself of the excruciating pain.

Which pain if I may ask?

The pain of not indulging in the pleasure. 

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 13:43 #396146

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Acceptance carries an underlying desire for a change in your situation. Happiness does not 
I will give battle Sir- General George Meade (Army of the Potomac)
Nuts!- General Anthony McAuliffe (101st Airborne)
Lets Get Dangerous! - Darkwing Duck
You’ll need to raise the ante and negotiate- Rechnitzer Rejects
I'm fresh out of essential truths- Spock
Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person - David Rossi

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 15:05 #396151

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You can't stop a bird from flying over your head, but you can stop it from making a nest there.

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 15:43 #396153

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worst case scenario you can always shampoo

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 16:27 #396157

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Having teeth pulled is painful. Take care of them before you lose them
I will give battle Sir- General George Meade (Army of the Potomac)
Nuts!- General Anthony McAuliffe (101st Airborne)
Lets Get Dangerous! - Darkwing Duck
You’ll need to raise the ante and negotiate- Rechnitzer Rejects
I'm fresh out of essential truths- Spock
Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person - David Rossi
Last Edit: 24 May 2023 16:27 by foolie.

Re: Grant's Rants 25 May 2023 01:23 #396185

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The intensity of my desires hasn't lessened (yet), but the chance of me giving in has.

Re: Grant's Rants 25 May 2023 03:53 #396200

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Inconceivable!
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Re: Grant's Rants 25 May 2023 13:08 #396213

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Be confident in success, but not to the point of foolishness. 

Re: Grant's Rants 28 May 2023 03:29 #396239

Grant400 wrote on 24 May 2023 15:05:
You can't stop a bird from flying over your head, but you can stop it from making a nest there.

They say a story about Rav Boruch Mordechai Ezrachi Shlita that a bird flew over his head and dropped "something"...and he said "Nu, by Yonasan ben Uziel any bird that flew overhead would burst into flame. By me at least es gechapped a tzitter (it's seized by a trembling)"
איש את רעהו יעזרו ולאחיו יאמר חזק!! (ישעיהו מא:ו)
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Re: Grant's Rants 28 May 2023 13:49 #396249

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Happiness requires commitment instant gratification does not 
I will give battle Sir- General George Meade (Army of the Potomac)
Nuts!- General Anthony McAuliffe (101st Airborne)
Lets Get Dangerous! - Darkwing Duck
You’ll need to raise the ante and negotiate- Rechnitzer Rejects
I'm fresh out of essential truths- Spock
Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person - David Rossi

Re: Grant's Rants 28 May 2023 23:43 #396280

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It's not my job to take. It's not my job to give - in order to take.

It's my job just to give, but then I will receive.
Last Edit: 28 May 2023 23:43 by grant400.

Re: Grant's Rants 28 May 2023 23:53 #396282

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Winners never quit
and quitters never win

“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.”
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Re: Grant's Rants 29 May 2023 03:00 #396317

"What doesn't kill you makes you stronger"
(another version: what doesn't kill you sometimes makes you wish it did.....) 
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Re: Grant's Rants 29 May 2023 14:33 #396346

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There are two kinds of posts:

1. Help me feel better.

2. Help me do better.

Both are legitimate and necessary, but if you use the first method as a means to convince yourself you are accomplishing the second one, you are deluding yourself and wasting time.
Last Edit: 29 May 2023 14:33 by grant400.

Re: Grant's Rants 29 May 2023 14:36 #396348

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Grant400 wrote on 29 May 2023 14:33:
There are two kinds of posts:

1. Help me feel better.

2. Help me do better.

Both are legitimate and necessary, but if you use the first method as a means to convince yourself you are accomplishing the second one, you are deluding yourself and wasting time.

Very strong and true point, and it's hard to define whats 1 and what's 2
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