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Re: Grant's Rants 18 May 2023 21:15 #395889

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Occasionally it's a push, sometimes a slip, many times a fall, and too many times it's a jump.

Re: Grant's Rants 18 May 2023 23:55 #395898

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Where do you get all the creativity from? I love it!
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Re: Grant's Rants 19 May 2023 13:24 #395918

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Many are ready for changes, most aren't ready to make them.
Last Edit: 19 May 2023 13:38 by grant400.

Re: Grant's Rants 21 May 2023 17:20 #395958

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Very quick glances - is still looking. 

Re: Grant's Rants 22 May 2023 14:59 #396016

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I'm learning to obsess about what I do have, instead of obsessing about what I don't have.

Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 13:01 #396077

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It seems as if I'll be eternally lust obsessed. Either actively getting my fix, or actively not getting my fix.

Can't the sun shine with a 5 minute reprieve? 

Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 13:15 #396078

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Getting up late when you need to be up early is a recipe for stress especially when you have to handle the responsibilities of the household for a day. Thank your wives because they make it look so easy 
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Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 14:36 #396088

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Grant400 wrote on 23 May 2023 13:01:
It seems as if I'll be eternally lust obsessed. Either actively getting my fix, or actively not getting my fix.

Can't the sun shine with a 5 minute reprieve? 

Strong post and realization... and quite a painful one too....

What do you think the answer is?

Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 14:46 #396091

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Sapy wrote on 23 May 2023 14:36:

Grant400 wrote on 23 May 2023 13:01:
It seems as if I'll be eternally lust obsessed. Either actively getting my fix, or actively not getting my fix.

Can't the sun shine with a 5 minute reprieve? 

Strong post and realization... and quite a painful one too....

What do you think the answer is?

I think we know the answer: Everything in this world is put here as a test. Our whole purpose here is to overcome those tests. (Mesillas Yeshorim Perek Aleph)
It's still painful, but maybe this truth can make it slightly less so.
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Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 15:24 #396093

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Give your wife the help she needs because she needs it and she’ll pay it back to you tenfold 
I will give battle Sir- General George Meade (Army of the Potomac)
Nuts!- General Anthony McAuliffe (101st Airborne)
Lets Get Dangerous! - Darkwing Duck
You’ll need to raise the ante and negotiate- Rechnitzer Rejects
I'm fresh out of essential truths- Spock
Life is a hell of a thing to happen to a person - David Rossi

Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 16:32 #396098

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monseyyid41 wrote on 23 May 2023 14:46:

Sapy wrote on 23 May 2023 14:36:

Grant400 wrote on 23 May 2023 13:01:
It seems as if I'll be eternally lust obsessed. Either actively getting my fix, or actively not getting my fix.

Can't the sun shine with a 5 minute reprieve? 

Strong post and realization... and quite a painful one too....

What do you think the answer is?

I think we know the answer: Everything in this world is put here as a test. Our whole purpose here is to overcome those tests. (Mesillas Yeshorim Perek Aleph)
It's still painful, but maybe this truth can make it slightly less so.

So in other words, this is it. Try your best, this is the way it supposed to be? Just clarifying that I understand your premise.

Re: Grant's Rants 23 May 2023 16:54 #396099

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Oddly enough, the thought I wont live forever always cheered my up when I thought of that.
Lets jsut get rid of it before we hit the next world where things last and dont change

Besides that, I think it does get better. Youve already hit points you thought were impossible. 
It does die down, it does get better, it does become less a presence.
And anyway,  it probably goes away as we age. Unless you feed it, then we become embarrassing pervy old men with no filters.
Or have i hit that already?

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 01:43 #396121

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Quite often, I want to act out, not to experience the pleasure, but to rid myself of the excruciating pain.

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 02:29 #396128

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Grant400 wrote on 24 May 2023 01:43:
Quite often, I want to act out, not to experience the pleasure, but to rid myself of the excruciating pain.

Which pain if I may ask?

Re: Grant's Rants 24 May 2023 02:34 #396129

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Grant400 wrote on 23 May 2023 13:01:
It seems as if I'll be eternally lust obsessed. Either actively getting my fix, or actively not getting my fix.

Can't the sun shine with a 5 minute reprieve? 

That hurts
"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)
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