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Re: Grant's Rants 28 Jun 2023 15:31 #398156

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Grant400 wrote on 28 Jun 2023 01:35:
Don't worship a streak for its number of days, worship it for the growth behind it.

- Connected, June 27 2023

The growth behind the streak is genuine worship.
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Re: Grant's Rants 30 Jul 2023 15:01 #399269

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The enlisted men stand around, shuffling, on the battlefield, baking in the brutal summer sun. 

They keep looking up, hopefully, to the command post on the rise. Waiting. 

Waiting for the General…. 

We need you, friend. Insightful and logical. Clarity, wry humor, sometimes a bit pointed and acerbic, and always caring and real. 

It ain’t the same without you and that’s the plain truth.
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Last Edit: 30 Jul 2023 15:02 by chaimoigen.

Re: Grant's Rants 31 Jul 2023 22:28 #399314

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chaimoigen wrote on 30 Jul 2023 15:01:
The enlisted men stand around, shuffling, on the battlefield, baking in the brutal summer sun. 

They keep looking up, hopefully, to the command post on the rise. Waiting. 

Waiting for the General…. 

We need you, friend. Insightful and logical. Clarity, wry humor, sometimes a bit pointed and acerbic, and always caring and real. 

It ain’t the same without you and that’s the plain truth.

Agreed.

Re: Grant's Rants 01 Aug 2023 16:34 #399360

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Bennyh wrote on 31 Jul 2023 22:28:

chaimoigen wrote on 30 Jul 2023 15:01:
The enlisted men stand around, shuffling, on the battlefield, baking in the brutal summer sun. 

They keep looking up, hopefully, to the command post on the rise. Waiting. 

Waiting for the General…. 

We need you, friend. Insightful and logical. Clarity, wry humor, sometimes a bit pointed and acerbic, and always caring and real. 

It ain’t the same without you and that’s the plain truth.

Agreed.

Seconded
"It is not our abilities that show who we truly are, it is our choices.” ---- Albus Dumbeldore (as per Chris Columbus)

Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 00:58 #399897

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"A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step."

                                 - Lao Tzu

Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 12:58 #399927

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Grant400 wrote on 16 Aug 2023 00:58:
"A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step."

                                 - Lao Tzu

To think it's been 6 weeks since you last ranted .
May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career

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Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 14:47 #399942

The journey of 1000 rants begins with a single post
איש את רעהו יעזרו ולאחיו יאמר חזק!! (ישעיהו מא:ו)
Let's do this together!!
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Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 17:19 #399957

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Year 1: I have this struggle because of A, B, C, D.

Year 2: (A goes away) I have this struggle because of B, C, D, E.

Year 3: (B goes away) I have this struggle because of C, D, E, F.

Those triggers/problems may be legitimate, yet at the core there will always be the issue itself.

That's what I need to focus on.
Last Edit: 16 Aug 2023 17:20 by grant400.

Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 18:13 #399963

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Grant400 wrote on 16 Aug 2023 17:19:
Year 1: I have this struggle because of A, B, C, D.

Year 2: (A goes away) I have this struggle because of B, C, D, E.

Year 3: (B goes away) I have this struggle because of C, D, E, F.

Those triggers/problems may be legitimate, yet at the core there will always be the issue itself.

That's what I need to focus on.

So true. That's a major accomplishment itself to realize this. But what comes next? How do we unlock and work on the core issue itself?
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
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Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
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Re: Grant's Rants 16 Aug 2023 19:53 #399971

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I think that takes a friend. We can never be enough brutal to find the problem within ourselves. But to find the true friend, ah....
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Re: Grant's Rants 20 Aug 2023 19:52 #400149

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Is there a suggestion box where we can suggest the subject of the next rant?
Anyway, here's a thought I learned from the general. 

Don't act selfless. Be selfless.
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Re: Grant's Rants 31 Aug 2023 15:34 #400712

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The General seems to be AWOL so the boots on the ground may have to strap some shiny medals onto their chest & & stand up tall.
chaimoigen wrote on 31 Aug 2023 13:48:

A fall of a thousand miles starts with a single click. 
  
May you slide down the banister of happiness and get many splinters of success up your career

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Re: Grant's Rants 06 Sep 2023 17:52 #400910

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Hey Grant,  
The halacha rules that if you allow the public to access your property for public use, you're not allowed to take it back, unless you notified the public beforehand. You gave us access to your property (thoughts) with these great rants, I don't know if your halachically allowed to just stop this....

All jokes aside, much appreciated!

Re: Grant's Rants 14 Sep 2023 10:41 #401127

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I quit smoking but i still want to buy a pack. I wont smoke it of course.... 

that's googling random stuff, but nothing triggering of course...
"Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm" - Winston Churchill

Curiosity kills the count

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Re: Grant's Rants 14 Sep 2023 14:58 #401135

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When struggling today, don't just focus on the negatives of giving in right now, think about which road it can lead you down, and where that road can take you in five years.
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