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Re: This time will be better 20 Mar 2022 14:38 #378796

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Amazing! Good for you!! Your gevura is enviable.

Re: This time will be better 21 Mar 2022 06:06 #378841

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22 days behind me Bez”H!!!! 
I ask Hashem for another day clean
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 21 Mar 2022 10:41 #378847

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Dude! You’re not stam! Can you share some tricks you’ve been utilizing to deal with stress and triggers?

Hatzlacha rabba to you!!

Re: This time will be better 22 Mar 2022 10:02 #378910

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23 days behind me!!!!!
please Hashem give me another day clean!!!!
make my mind clean!!!!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 23 Mar 2022 07:38 #378956

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Good morning!!!! 
24 days clean behind me!!!
Im begging Hashem to give me another clean day free of nisyonos!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 24 Mar 2022 06:53 #379015

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25 days behind me B”H 
please Hashem help me be clean for another day!!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 25 Mar 2022 09:25 #379073

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26 days!!!!! 
very emotional Preida yesterday I must go back to America now  but I’m going back with a plan 
Hashem please help me be clean for another day!!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 26 Mar 2022 17:03 #379103

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27 days!!! 
please hashem give me another day clean!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 27 Mar 2022 10:01 #379129

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4 weeks!!!!! 28 days!!!!
THANK YOU HASHEM!!!!!!
Hashem please give me another day clean!!!!!
heading home from Eretz Yisroel tonight Bez”H I’m a different person than the me that left 8 months ago….
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 28 Mar 2022 08:28 #379188

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29 days behind me B”H 
just landed in America 
great flight B”H 
I am asking Hashem for another day clean 
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 28 Mar 2022 12:42 #379200

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I am so happy for you. Looking back just a month ago you were worlds away from where you are now. Your perseverance is inspiring.
vehkam7@gmail.com

guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/375452-Work-in-progress

The Battle of the Generation by Hillel S. has been a huge help for me.  Message me to find out how you can receive a free copy.



some of the experiences I write about may make it easier to identify me.  This is ok.  I trust that if anyone discovers my identity they will keep it to themselves.  If you do realize that you  know me, I am completely comfortable and welcome you acknowledging me and my struggle in person.

Re: This time will be better 29 Mar 2022 09:54 #379283

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30 days!!!!! B”H!!!!! I can’t actually believe that I did it….
the focus now is not even to get close to maybe even having a slip. There is no need for me to masturbate. It’s all just a messed up outlook that I trained myself to look at situations. Watching is out of the question, I’m starting shidduchim and I ain’t cheating on my wife!!!!!! Hashem thses are big things to take on please help me!!!!!!!
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 29 Mar 2022 12:30 #379285

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Wow! You are doing great! Maybe you could share some of the things you have been doing that have been helping.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: This time will be better 30 Mar 2022 10:55 #379344

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Day 31 B”H!!!! 
big day today I have a farher this morning…..
I hope I do well

Hashem please give me another day clean 
I will try to post what works for me when I have time, sorry I’m a little busy these days B”H 
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 

Re: This time will be better 31 Mar 2022 12:30 #379421

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32 days behind me!!!!!
Hashem please give me another day clean!!!!
As I’m starting shidduchim really soon, Hashem please help me not be distracted by the fake stuff and be able to make a healthy decision 
feel free to contact me with chizzuk or to stam shmuz @ joestyh@gmail.com 
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