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A platform of recovery for Jews who find themselves struggling with addictions to pornography, masturbation or other sexual problems. Post anonymously about your struggles without fear of anyone finding out who you are. Ask questions, post answers and be inspired! Get tips and guidance from the experts who moderate this forum, as well as from fellow strugglers.
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Struggling 10 Oct 2021 01:25 #373103

  • UserXyz
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Before I start is like to thank everyone on the forums for giving me a place where I feel comfortable asking these questions.
I've been struggling with Shemiras Enayim for the past few years and mainly going downhill. I think that a lot of the problems come from me thinking of what I've seen previously multiple times during the day. This leads to bad things happening at night.
 Here's my questions: How to I ignore/remove the bad thought during the day and how can I keep my mind busy at night?
Thanks again for giving me a place where for the first timei feel comfortable asking about this.
Any additional Chizzuk is greatly appreciated.

Re: Struggling 10 Oct 2021 01:57 #373104

  • Ish MiGrodno
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!כמה טוב שנפגשנו

​A great starting point would be to read threads from GYE veterans. This forum is replete with priceless stories; not just obscure vertlach about kedusha, but relatable struggles about guys just like me and you. You will identify with - not only the victories and defeats - but also with the raw and unfiltered feelings of loneliness and dejection; happiness and pride, etc.

I believe that this place has הקב״ה's undivided attention; it produces Yiddishe heroes and gems of people.

Stay tight and happy you joined our chevra.

​With warmest welcomes and feelings of brotherhood from Grodno ~ IMG

ה׳ עמך גבור החיל! [שופטים ו׳ יב׳]

 Perhaps you can find chizuk from my thread at 

Feel free to reach out to me at

Re: Struggling 10 Oct 2021 02:31 #373107

  • UserXyz
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Thank you. It's nice to know that I'm not alone in this fight.
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