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bein ha'hazmanim 13 Sep 2021 23:59 #372413

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Bein Ha'zmanim is rapidly approaching and I will be going home where I face many difficulties that b"h I do not have to deal with in yeshivah. There are several people in my house who have unfiltered computers that I am able to access. To make matters worse there will be several days when I will be the only one in the house the whole day. I am looking for eitzos from the oilam how to deal with this situation.   

Re: bein ha'hazmanim 14 Sep 2021 00:04 #372414

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Do you have to use those devices? If not it’s probably best to make a commitment to not using them at all, treat them as you would muktzah on Shabbos. This has worked for me in the past.
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).


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Re: bein ha'hazmanim 17 Sep 2021 13:19 #372512

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Find something that can hold you back, whether a shevuah if necessary, or not having permission to touch them, or a knas (monetary or embarrassing0
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