For me this is one of the hardest things. Its EVERYWHERE! I only recently put my foot down (I almost didn't even realize I was doing it) regarding this particular issue. I remember like a month ago when I decided I needed to change in was sitting in my car thinking to myself how it just isn't possible at all and it's too hard! It did get a little easier after a week or two because I wasn't only fighting temptation but also a really strong habit, for years I trained myself that when I see a woman immediately my mind dissects the body and grades each part
But once I broke the habit it wasn't as impossible. Don't get me wrong it's still excruciating! I still fail many times a day, I repeat many, but the times that I succeed I feel awesome. Also I don't have to deal with the side effects of indulging in eye candy...for example....when it would cause fantasizing which could eventually lead to acting out chsv"sh.
@90daysforever. The problem with stopping p & m but still ogling women isn't that it's not physically possible but rather that instead of curing yourself from the root of the problem i.e. lust and addiction you are just treating the symptoms.