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I'm gonna burn in hell 08 Oct 2019 05:38 #344110

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  yom kippur is soon! i just sinned again (and again) 
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Last Edit: 08 Oct 2019 07:35 by farblunjet.

Re: I'm gonna burn in hell 08 Oct 2019 13:58 #344115

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farblunjet wrote on 08 Oct 2019 05:38:
  yom kippur is soon! i just sinned again (and again) 

Blunj, Yom Kippur is not the acceptance exam for hell. It's actually not connected to hell at all.  It's a misconception that G-d is sending us to hell because we didn't behave on Yom Kippur.
What yom Kippur is actually about is quite the opposite. It is a day of opportunity to turn to G-d. To speak to Him. To reflect on our year(s) and decide how we're going to act/ what we will do the day after Yom Kippur.  It's not a probation period when G-d is stricter with us. It's a mediation period when G-d is listening closer and wants to hear out thoughts and plans. Talk to Him. Turn to Him. He loves you more then you'll ever know. He's watching and waiting "when will My farblunjet turn to Me for a conversation" He put you here and he wants you to succeed AND HE WANTS TO HELP YOU DO THAT. We just need to turn to Him. "Pischso pesach Shel machat..."
Always remember, Hashem is our loving Father Who loves and wants us.
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Re: I'm gonna burn in hell 08 Oct 2019 13:58 #344116

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Welcome chaver. We all know how you feel. Iyh you will get better here. Hatzlocha. Maybe think about changing the name of your thread. Its a bit on the yi'ush side.
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Re: I'm gonna burn in hell 08 Oct 2019 14:23 #344117

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Confess.
Repent.

Then get a plan together to avoid falling.

This might help.

www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/beyond-self-destructive-behavior/201601/mindfulness-in-the-treatment-self-destructive-behavior

Re: I'm gonna burn in hell 08 Oct 2019 20:08 #344125

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I really can't agree with this more. If we are able to change our perspective and realize that G-d is not out there to hurt us or make Judaism some kind of competition. He is really there for us and he is always doing what's best for us. He is the infinite giver and loves us more than we'll ever understand. 

Re: I'm gonna burn in hell 10 Oct 2019 17:17 #344142

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Yes. It's so true. Our perspective is so important for winning this fight.

If you want a great book that will help you acquire that great perspective, check out The Battle of the Generation: https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Hatzlacha
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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